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Does anyone feel there are certain circumstances when posting a negative review would be considered wrong, maybe even dangerous.
I was with this escort a few weeks before xmas.. the punt was okay'ish but during the intercourse I looked down and noticed a couple of scars on the girls arm.. then I looked a little closer and could see loads of old ones - very faint all over her forearms... it was pretty obvious that girl is/was a "self harmer"
If i put this in her review it would most likely put other punter off, but actually the girl was quite sweet and pretty good at her job.
then i got to thinking that maybe she wasn't doing her job by choice.. I'm not saying she was trafficked or anything but maybe she was escorting to earn a few quid to support a kid back home or a dying brother or a mother with cancer or god knows what and even though she hated the job she needed the job.. know what i mean?
...and by posting a negative but albeit honest review I might be doing the wrong thing by this girl
Alec Horan
30-01-10, 03:49
Joe -
I think if a girl is willing to allow a review then posting the above is acceptable - you are of course correct in that your review may have greater repurcussions but that goes for all reviews which is why I dont do them full stop -
Am I contradicting myself - Probably Yes. - Sorry !
I would say don't do nothing, post the review. But I wouldn't necessarily publish it all. We should all try to help any escorts we encounter who may need help. That includes me and you. If I were informed of any issue like this, perhaps I wouldn't feel it necessary to publish all the review, but we might contact the escort ourselves to check how she is or even report our concern for her to the relevant authorities if for any reason we were seriously concerned.
One question were the scars light coloured or freshly made colour?
As I don't see why you would give her a negitive review because you had a good service but she had a few scars on her arm from when she was a depressed teenager
fair enough if she's trafficed etc it would be a good idea for pat to check up
I couldnt agree more with Kelly here.. What has a few scars to do with the service? Everyone can have a scar, but that doesnt mean she is a bad escort or forced to escorting.
thanks for the replies everyone..
To answer an earlier question - the scars i noticed at first were recent or fresh (still had red-brown scabs) but there was at least ten on each arm that were older - much older.
As I said earlier the punt/service was quite good but the reviews aren't just about the sex, they're about the overall experience thats why punters mention the parking, the location, the shower facilities etc.
Does anyone feel there are certain circumstances when posting a negative review would be considered wrong, maybe even dangerous.
I was with this escort a few weeks before xmas.. the punt was okay'ish but during the intercourse I looked down and noticed a couple of scars on the girls arm.. then I looked a little closer and could see loads of old ones - very faint all over her forearms... it was pretty obvious that girl is/was a "self harmer"
If i put this in her review it would most likely put other punter off, but actually the girl was quite sweet and pretty good at her job.
then i got to thinking that maybe she wasn't doing her job by choice.. I'm not saying she was trafficked or anything but maybe she was escorting to earn a few quid to support a kid back home or a dying brother or a mother with cancer or god knows what and even though she hated the job she needed the job.. know what i mean?
...and by posting a negative but albeit honest review I might be doing the wrong thing by this girl
Why do you think you should post a negative review? If the overall experience was good you can mention the scars but say that it didn't affect the encounter too much.
thanks for the replies everyone..
To answer an earlier question - the scars i noticed at first were recent or fresh (still had red-brown scabs) but there was at least ten on each arm that were older - much older.
As I said earlier the punt/service was quite good but the reviews aren't just about the sex, they're about the overall experience thats why punters mention the parking, the location, the shower facilities etc.
Well, if it was fresh, then that is a different story. The woman obviously has some serious problems but if you mention it in her review, that wont help her.
I understand, that punters probably wont like to visit such an escort but in this case warning them isnt worth to ruin her life completely.
On the other hand if she is good at her job, you would be surpriced how little details the clients notice(or care).
I think you should have asked her if she was ok, now there isnt much anyone can do.
I don't think it would be doing her any favours by mentioning these in a review, like you said they are faint and only on her arms and the appointment was still ok.
I would be more inclined to ask an escort you may be in contact with to post something on the private escort forum, maybe one of the ladies there might know her and would be in a better position than you to aid her if needed??
I have in the past on one occasion found it neccesary to mention a ladies scar as I felt not to do so wouldn't be fair on the next client that may read my review, however that would be unlikely as she provided a pretty poor service and the review was a negative one.
We all have scars but this one looked more like the type you would see on a patient that had open heart surgery or similiar, from her belly button right up to between her chest and it was not by any means a faint or clean scar, I'd have sued the surgeon because it looked like he opened her with a buthchers knife :(
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whiteknight111
31-01-10, 14:02
thanks for the replies everyone..
To answer an earlier question - the scars i noticed at first were recent or fresh (still had red-brown scabs) but there was at least ten on each arm that were older - much older.
As I said earlier the punt/service was quite good but the reviews aren't just about the sex, they're about the overall experience thats why punters mention the parking, the location, the shower facilities etc.
This sounds like she is an long -term intravenous drug addict i.e. heroin needles
This raises two questions
1:Its morally wrong to use give money to heroin addicts
2:If she is an long-term intravenous drug addict and is prostituting herself
then she is VERY highly likely to be infected with something AIDS hepatitis etc.
YOu should get an STD test and post review
Good luck
experienced punter
31-01-10, 19:30
This sounds like she is an long -term intravenous drug addict i.e. heroin needles
This raises two questions
1:Its morally wrong to use give money to heroin addicts
2:If she is an long-term intravenous drug addict and is prostituting herself
then she is VERY highly likely to be infected with something AIDS hepatitis etc.
YOu should get an STD test and post review
Good luck
sorry to alarm u too Just Joe thats a good post by whiteknight u need to review alrite.......
EnglishTaylor
31-01-10, 23:53
This sounds like she is an long -term intravenous drug addict i.e. heroin needles
This raises two questions
1:Its morally wrong to use give money to heroin addicts
2:If she is an long-term intravenous drug addict and is prostituting herself
then she is VERY highly likely to be infected with something AIDS hepatitis etc.
YOu should get an STD test and post review
Good luck
what is wrong with you????? who are you to pass judgement on someone you have never met?? I think you all need education. Escorts should be responsible for going for regular testing for stds & hiv. SO TOO SHOULD ALL YOU MEN WHO GO TO SEE ESCORTS. Any lady who does escorting as a job at her own free will does it for her own reasons, whatever those reasons maybe (drink, drugs, likes sex, wants extra income, wants a lavish lifestyle, to pay for studying...the list goes on). If you get a good service, post a good review, if you get a bad service then post a negative review. But on this issue i agree with Patricia. However everyone has issues of some sort in their past or present day life & speaking from experience the bottom line is WHAT HAS IT GOT TO DO WITH ANYONE ELSE?? xxx
mariusdarius
01-02-10, 06:46
i think 2 ppl here have a to loose fantasy! Havin scars doesn't mean bein forced! No p*mp would ruin the goods like that. In the worst case she is a self-harmer what is a mental illness that only affects that person. And how did whitenight get for that to drug user. The last time i check you don't cut yourself when usin intrav drugs. Get a grip and a life ppl
Does anyone feel there are certain circumstances when posting a negative review would be considered wrong, maybe even dangerous.
Yes
it was pretty obvious that girl is/was a "self harmer"
If i put this in her review it would most likely put other punter off, but actually the girl was quite sweet and pretty good at her job.
I would probably post no review in this case. I certainly wouldn't post a negative one. If she was really good then I would consider posting a positive one, without mentioning the scars. Later punters might be annoyed at the omission, but my attitude is that I write the the truth, and nothing but the truth, but that I don't owe anyone the whole truth.
whiteknight111
01-02-10, 12:45
Talyor you are the one thats needs to be edcuated on heroin abuse see link
Generally speaking the following statements/assumptions are true
1:Heroin is evil
2:heroin destroys people and communites
3:funding someones herion addiction is wrong
4:Heroin addicts/prostitues have very high levels of disease
5:This girls scars,sound like heroin addiction a bad case of it
6:A herion addict who prostisutes is not doing it of free will the heroin controls her.
7:A herion addict is the least likely of groups to get checked for stds
8:The reason its the E-Is busniess is,
if an escort on this site is a herion addict is the increased risk of diease trasmission
to all of us.
9:Addiction to hard drugs is not a valid reason for prostition the same as some of others
you mention like "paying for studies".
Question for you!
Would you like a client to visit a long-term Herion addict get OWO and then come you?
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