We all have our favourite sex position, the one that we go to when we really want an intense orgasm (or two) and want to feel nothing but pleasure the entire time. The positions vary from person to person, so much so that a couple might enjoy different positions and need to switch between them during sex to keep everyone happy.
A position that perhaps doesn’t get as much credit as it deserves is the girl on top. Sure, doggy style is great for the pleasure, but there are so many awesome things about cowgirl that we want to pay it its due. We take a look at the reasons that the girl on top sex position is the best position ever… according to me, anyway.
What a view!
Sex is great and everything, but sex where you can properly see what is going on? That’s even better, and there is no bigger turn on than watching your partner’s face as you passionately fuck them in this position.
For a start, you get to face each other and see every little twitch in their face and smile as it passes their lips. When you slow things down, you can watch them groan in frustration and see their lips moving as they beg you to speed up and let them come.
If seeing the cheeky look on your partner’s face as she grinds her pussy into your cock and teases you with every movement she makes isn’t tempting enough, the fact that you can see her tits bouncing away every time she slides up and down your dick might be enough to convince you. Boob fans will loves this position, if only to watch those tits bouncing away in front of them.
Touch-a Touch-a Touch me
It is no secret that a lot of women struggle to orgasm during sex. For some reason, your cock in their cunt just doesn’t hit the right buttons, and so we can often be left feeling unsatisfied by sex. Girl on top works better for us than most positions, as it puts your cock in the perfect place to rub our g-spot and help us get to that all-important orgasm.
Of course, you can help us along a little bit by getting your hands involved. With your hot and sexy lady bouncing up and down on your dick, you can reach out and fondle her perfect tits. You can squeeze them, teasing and tugging the nipples with your thumb and fingers to make us feel great, and then your hands can slide lower.
If she likes grinding on your cock, you can slowly drift your fingers to her clit and rub. This will make her feel great and she might start to grind faster – a sign that she is getting close. Keep rubbing, keeping tempo with her movements, and she will have an explosive orgasm right on top of you.
The woman is in control…
As a woman I can tell you that, for some men, they believe that orgasm is much more likely to happen if they jackhammer their dicks inside of you. They think that speed and friction are their friends, and don’t realise that this can actually do more harm than good and put your partner off sleeping with you ever again.
With the girl on top position, the fast and furious humping is much less likely to happen. The woman is in control, so she can decide just how fast or slow you are going to be fucked. If you want her to speed up you have to beg her to do it, and that might make her want to tease you even more!
She also controls how deep your cock goes into her wet cunt. She can slowly grind her pussy on your dick, before sliding all the way up and slamming back down so that you can fill her. If you are particularly big, this is great for her as she won’t be forced to take the full load of meat before she is ready.
…but control can switch
One of the reasons that many women find that girl on top doesn’t work for them is that they can get tired. There is a long of effort involved for the thighs and, while it is a great workout, it can get a bit tough to carry on at the rate they are going.
However, you men can easily take control and help her out, which means you can stay in this awesome position while giving her a moment to catch her breath and rest. All you has to do is grab hold of her hips and start to move her.
Start off slowly by sliding her backwards and forwards to rub her pussy and clit along your body, and thrust up to see how deep you can slide your cock into her. She can touch her own tits or grab hold of your hands, which makes this position even hotter.
Can be done anywhere
Girl on top tends to take place in the bedroom, with the guy lying on his back and enjoying the view and ride while the woman rides up and down on his rock hard cock. However, the beauty of the girl on top position, and the reason it is a firm favourite for many women, is that it can be done anywhere, as long as the woman is in control.
Want to fuck them on a rug in front of a romantic fire? Done. Eager for her to climb on your lap and distract you from your boring work? Easy! You choose the setting and simply enjoy the sensations.
Do you agree that the girl on top position is the best sex position of all time, or have you got one that can outdo it? Let us know on the Escort Ireland forum, or by leaving a comment in the box below. What is your favourite position?
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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