I’m a cis-woman. Throughout my sex life I have been on the receiving end of plenty of oral. Some of it has been great – the kind that I happily bragged to my friends about over cocktails. Some has been ‘meh’, leaving me feeling a bit disappointed. Other time it has been the perfect demonstration of how not to eat pussy.
Knowing what your partner wants when it comes to oral is tough. It is made even more of a challenge when your partner doesn’t want to share with you about what works for them. If you are at all unsure about what tends to be good and bad when it comes to oral, keep reading. I talk about the right and wrong ways to eat pussy.
Right: take it slow
Some people love eating pussy. They go at it like they are starving, and the only sustenance they can find is in the wet folds between their partner’s legs. Enthusiasm is fantastic when it comes to receiving oral, but the key is to take your time with it.
It’s a marathon, not a sprint. A lot of pussy owners find that it takes them longer to reach orgasm. They need a slow and steady build up in order to get there. So warm them up to receiving oral slowly.
Really take your time to get them turned on first. Kiss their body all over and tease around their sweet cunt before you dive on in. Kiss their lips gently, pressing more firmly as time goes on. Build up the pressure and move towards their most sensitive spots with ease. It is the biggest turn on you can do.
Wrong: changing techniques
In your eagerness to eat their pussy like the juiciest peach in all of the land, you might find yourself trying many different things. You want to make them feel good, after all. You’ll try anything and everything to try and get a reaction. You might try one thing for a few seconds before switching to something else.
Don’t do that. If you really want to make your partner feel good, your best bet is to stick with one technique instead of swapping constantly. Most prefer one type of constant stimulation, and changing all the time isn’t going to do you any favours.
Why is that? Well, pussies are sensitive and often require constant stimulation of a certain kind in order to get them off. The stimulation required will vary from person to person, but changing in the middle of the act can actually make your partner lose their orgasm. If you’ve ever experienced this before you’ll know how much it sucks, so just stick with one thing and keep at it.
Right: use all of your mouth
Oral sex means that you get to use all of your mouth to bring your partner pleasure. A lot of people are very good at doing this. They really want to get stuck in there, and so they’ll use their tongue, lips, and maybe even teeth to make their partner feel amazing.
As you build your partner up, experiment with different things. A light nibble on their inner thigh is going to make them melt. I’m not saying that you go full vampire and try to suck their blood, but a gentle graze of teeth can do a hell of a lot. A blow in the right spot can also work wonders!
Don’t be afraid to get your lips to work. Your tongue is great for precision pussy-eating, but gentle suction can do a hell of a lot on the clit. It feels amazing, which is why suction clit toys are so popular right now. Try it out and you’ll have them squirming beneath you in no time!
Wrong: lacking stamina
Like I said earlier, when you eat pussy you are in it for the long haul. It isn’t just a quick few licks and they’ll moan your name and writhe underneath you. It takes a bit more time to get that cunt to really feel good, so you are best settling.
What many people get wrong is that they will lack the stamina to stick it out. After a few minutes they are ready to throw in the towel. Their mouth gets tired, and their tongue is ready to give up the ghost. They just can’t keep at it.
If this is your problem, you need to change your technique a bit. Don’t stick your tongue out to lick at that pussy from afar. Really get stuck in there. Not only will moving your entire mouth to the pussy save your energy and let you go for longer, but it’ll provide more intense stimulation for your partner. It’s a win/win situation.
Right: communication
If you are looking for the number one winning technique when you eat pussy then look no further. You’ve found it! Yes, there is actually one amazing tip I can give you that means you’ll be an expert at eating cunt in no time at all.
Communication.
You might feel like it’s a cop out answer, but communication is the best thing you can do. Talking to your partner is going to win you so many brownie points. You are showing them instantly that you recognise they aren’t like anyone else. You want to make them specifically feel good. It also shows that they can talk to you about anything, so what are you waiting for?
How do you eat pussy?
We all use different techniques when it comes to oral sex. When you find a winning technique, you tend to stick with it. So how do you eat pussy? Are you a slow and steady licks type of person or do you really get your lips involved for an intense orgasm?
Share them with us by leaving a comment below. What do you do to get your partner screaming your name for all to hear? Tell me your secrets.
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