The Hottest Sex Toys You Have To Try!

It isn’t exactly a secret that I love using sex toys. Whether I am on my own and simply want to spice up masturbation or I’m with a partner eager to try something new, sex toys are a great way to do it. They are fun and exciting, making them the perfect tools to use for your or your partner’s pleasure.

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People often find themselves unsure about the best toys to buy. They want to experiment but have absolutely no idea where to start. How do you know which toys will work for you? Does the price matter? Are you best shopping online or going in store? I take a look at the hottest sex toys and give you some tips for buying them.

The vibrating bullet

The first time I ever bought a sex toy it was right after a bad breakup. I felt awful, and my extremely sex positive friend dragged me into a local sex shop and told me that I should get a vibrator. The woman in the store was amazing at helping me pick the right one (one of the cheapest, too), but she also suggested that I buy a vibrating bullet as well.

Compared to the seven inch vibrator I’d just bought, the vibrating bullet didn’t seem at all intimidating. It still had a strong vibration, but its small size made it the perfect starter toy. I didn’t feel quite like I was diving in at the deep end.

I now have several bullet vibrators from varying brands in my toy box. Some have soft silicone heads while others are more solid. They tend to vary in price, costing between €10 and €15 for a standard one. However, you can also buy rechargeable ones, which cost more money. You might end up spending around €70 for one of those, depending on the make.

If you don’t want to spend a fortune to start out with, there is nothing wrong with getting a cheap one just to try. Just make sure you remember the battery or you might be left disappointed.

Given how much it could cost you to buy online, with P&P added on, you might find it easier to simply pop into your local sex shop the next time you are in town. You’ll get to see them in person then and, if you have questions, the staff will be willing to help.

Small but mighty!
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Cock ring

People see “cock rings” and automatically think that they are the kind of toy specifically for those with a penis to use. While this is generally the idea, they can actually be used by anybody, if you know the right way to use them. I enjoy them with a partner, no matter their gender, as there are so many ways you can use them.

They work particularly well for those with penises, as they can help you to maintain an erection, and they can potentially delay your orgasm a little. However, many of them are capable of so much more than this.

You can get some with vibrating bullet attachments, ensuring that you can pleasure your partner at the same time. While the cheapest tend to be silicone and stretchy, you can also buy metal ones to experiment with temperature play, which then leads the way for you to dip your toes into the world of BDSM.

They often start at around €15, depending on where you are purchasing them from. However, you can also get rechargeable ones, and ones with special additions to them. For example, Ann Summers sells one with a magnet in it, designed to draw the blood to the surface and make you more sensitive.

Whether or not you splurge on one depends on what you are looking for from the toy. If you want a basic ring them a well reviewed cheaper one might suit your needs. If you want something more specific, you are going to have to pay for it.

Cock rings have many different uses
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Massage wand

Recently I decided to give in and treat myself. After hearing all of the hype about massage wands, I bought one. It took me forever to decide, and I remember sitting and waiting eagerly for the postman to arrive with it. It arrived when my flat mate was in, and so she wanted to see it. We spent a good ten minutes looking over it, staring at just how big the wand was and how strong the vibrations were. She joked that it was going to make me squirt the moment I put it near my clit.

Spoiler alert: I didn’t. But it is still one of the hottest sex toys I have ever tried.

That said, it was probably the most intimidating sex toy that I have ever bought. It was huge, about the size of my forearm (plus hand), and quite heavy. Was I going to use it for pleasure or beat someone with it? Worst of all, the toy was too long for my toy box, so it had to find a home beside it, in its original packaging.

When I finally got the courage to use it, I discovered that it is the single greatest thing I have ever bought in my life. Not only did it lead me to some incredible orgasms (often multiple), but it was diverse. Things like dildos are pretty limited in their uses, whereas a massage wand can be used for just that. You can massage your partner, yourself, or use it for sexual pleasure. You can even buy attachments for some!

A few are battery powered, but most are either rechargeable or mains operated. Mains operated tend to pack a stronger punch. This is what I have. However, it does also mean that I need an extension cord to make sure I don’t pull the plug from the wall at the crucial time. Rechargeable might be better if you don’t want to worry about that.

The cost can also vary a lot. I spent €100 on mine, and that was for the basic model. If I wanted the massage wand I was really eyeing up, I’d have spent around €170. The good ones aren’t cheap, but it is worth investing in a good one. Check reviews online before you buy, and see which wands sex bloggers recommend the most.

Massage wands are the more expensive on this list, but they make for some of the hottest sex toys you can buy!
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The hottest sex toys!

Exactly what makes up the essentials for your list of the hottest sex toys depends a lot on your desires. If you are hoping to dip your toe into the world of toys, then the above might be a good place to start. They’ll give you plenty of variety and amazing stimulation in different forms.

While buying online does have its benefits, in that toys are usually cheap and you have more variety, you might find that it is better to go in store when seeing which of the hottest sex toys you want to buy. It gives you the chance to ask questions and discover more about them.

Do you have a favourite toy you can’t get enough of? What do you think the hottest sex toys are? Tell us all about them by leaving a comment below.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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