Most of us want to try different things in bed. Some want to go for naughty things like BDSM, others want new, more complicated sex positions. However, it is safe to say that often these things take time and practice. Often, what we want is something really simple to make sex better, but which doesn’t end up more complicated than a school exam. Who really has the energy to go all experimental after 10PM and a long day at work?
A fantastic way to get that simple sexual thrill is to try the CAT position. No, you don’t have to start meowing like a cat; this is in fact something called ‘coital alignment technique’.
But what actually is it? Put simply, it’s the act of changing the position that the penis penetrates the vagina. Also, it is one of the few missionary positions that can actually get the woman to orgasm.
How To Do The Cat
The woman lies on her back with her legs open, with the man goes on top. This is the same as the usual missionary position.
But rather than thrusting in and out, the man moves his body forward so his head is slightly above her head.
The idea is that by doing this the penis will be angled slightly downwards. This means that penis hits the back wall of the vagina, while the base of the penis rubs against the clitoris.
While this is happening, she can tilt her hips slightly upwards, and also wrap her legs around the guy’s body or ankles to add some intimacy.
At this point he moves in a steady rocking motion rather than going in and out. To make it even better, the woman can grind against, so she’s getting extra clitoral stimulation.
This technique should be done slowly, so there is no need to go in like a pneumatic drill. This gives it a real sensual feeling, rather than an animalistic one. On top of that, the clitoral stimulation for the lady makes it feel great for both parties.
The best sex tips are sometimes the most simple. This we feel falls into that category. It really is well worth trying out if you are looking for something to give things in the bedroom a bit of a kick start.
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