There is a massive social stigma against those who have a small penis. It attacks the very essence of masculinity, even becoming a joke for many women who comment that a jerk of a guy must have a ‘very small dick’. Though this is seriously unpleasant and embarrassing for those affected, good news may be on the way. A new report says that men with a small penis may actually be able to give a woman MORE pleasure than those with a big one.
If you are one of the 0.6% of men who have a micropenis (that is a real term), according to sex therapist Elizabeth McGrath there could be serious benefits.
Important Lessons
McGrath actually coaches men who have this condition, teaching them to make the most out of what they have got through “clothed, non-genital touch” the Daily Dot reports.
“I really practice this work and I believe in it, primarily because sex is of our bodies,” McGrath said. “When it comes to sex and relationships, I believe there’s only so much talking can do.
“So much of what keeps people down, makes them feel awful, are these ideas about what good sex is, and it’s a box, a very, very small box,” McGrath adds.
“For somebody with a micropenis or their partner, not fitting in that box is very painful.”
So what does McGrath advise these men do?
“There’s humping, there’s grinding, there’s rubbing the penis on the labia or on the side, and then it expands into ‘What kind of fun things can we do together?'” she explains.
“Look at it as an opportunity to find new things rather than focus on one way of doing it specifically.”
In this kind of scenario, she recommended oral sex can be used at the ‘main course’.
“I think any augmenting toys can be fun. But more importantly, is it comfortable and does it feel good? Are you doing it because you enjoy it or is it because you feel like it makes you more normal?”
Almost more importantly, she also gives advice on how a man should approach telling any women in his life he has a micropenis. She recommends that he should tell her and not stress about it, as to do so would just re-enforce the negative stereotypes about the condition.
A Positive Step
For me, this is a brilliant thing to read. It is a case of making the most of what you can do, rather than focusing on what you can’t. Also, getting rid of stigma is always a good thing no matter what sex you are.
As my Mum always said, ‘it isn’t how big it is, it is what you do with it that counts’. Slightly off thing for a Mum to say in front of her son, but the sentiment is correct!
Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.
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