Is Sex Good Without An Orgasm?

Enjoying sex is not a bad thing. It means that you understand your own body, how it works, and how you connect with another person in an intimate act. Whether your turn ons are sexy lingerie or being spanked, sex provides you with the ultimate gratification.
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Recently I had a female friend say to me that she had an orgasm during sex for the first time. I was confused, as she’d often told me that she had a great sex life. I questioned her and she said that she did have a good sex life and that an orgasm wasn’t that important during sex.

Can sex really be good or even great without an orgasm? After debating this with her for quite some time I turn to you, the members of Escort Ireland, for some help. Is sex better with an orgasm?

Enjoying the moment

She said it was all about enjoying the moment and trying to please your partner. It was more difficult to make sure your partner was enjoying themselves if you were concentrating on your own needs.

For me this does ring a little bit true. When performing oral on my partner I won’t do the 69 position. I want to make sure my partner is happy before we continue with the rest of the act, and that she is wet enough that her own body has provided a natural lube for us.

However, I try to get my partner to orgasm before we move on to the main act to make sure they are feeling satisfied. It makes her more eager to move on to the next thing, which makes it even hotter. Sometimes we might not get there, but most of the time we will both have an orgasm, so the sex is fantastic on those occasions.

The verdict

Can sex still be good without an orgasm? I think that yes, it is possible to have good sex, but it won’t be as mind-blowing and fantastic as it is when you have an orgasm. An orgasm is the build up and release of pleasure, and without it sex can be very stale.

Tell us your thoughts on this – is sex good without an orgasm? You can use the comments down below or check out the Escort Ireland forum to give us your opinion.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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