Valentine’s Day can be a difficult day to get through, especially if you are trying to plan the perfect romantic date for you and your partner. You might want to avoid the cliché or find something that screams romance and sensuality. So where do you start?
If you have been struggling to think of the perfect way to celebrate this special and romantic day with someone, then we have a few suggestions for you below. Why not take a look at the ideas below and see if any appeal to you?
One of the best things you can do for your partner is to give them a sensual massage. Not sure how? We have a fantastic guide for you to follow, but if you want the basics, here’s what you’ll need to do.
First, get them relaxed. This usually means running them a bath and giving them the chance to soak. While they do this, you can prepare the room. Light some candles, play some relaxing music, and get the oils ready. Make sure you have some towels to hand to help clean things up.
Then you get them to lie down on the bed. Start with a little oil and work your way in towards their body slowly, one stroke at a time. Gentle strokes at first work well, and you can apply a little pressure later on to make it more intense. Try to tease her with each stroke and you’ll find that she is relaxed and a little turned on in no time at all.
GFE stands for the girlfriend experience. It is what many opt for when they want to spend time with an escort, as this is a service that many will offer to you. But what does GFE actually entail?
It basically means that you get all of the benefits and advantages of a relationship without strings attached. You can have the closeness of a relationship without having to deal with all of the stresses of one, which makes it ideal for the perfect romantic Valentine’s Day celebration.
All you have to do is call up your favourite escort and make a booking, if they provide GFE. You might need to check their profile to see if they do before you call, but if you do manage to find an escort offering it, you will not regret making the booking.
Sometimes you want to slow things down, and often a great way to do this is with a striptease. A striptease is surprisingly simple to do. All you have to do is remove your clothing slowly and dance to music at the same time, but some people find this to be a real challenge.
For music choose something slow and sensual. Songs like I Put A Spell On You or Feeling Good will work well to give you a slow and sexy beat. Plus they will really help to set the mood!
It can also be incredibly romantic for the person watching, as they get to see you taking off all of your clothes slowly until you are naked before them. It will be a huge turn on, especially if they then take the time to explore your body.
You can still get very romantic on Valentine’s Day by getting sex. Instead of having sex for the sake of making yourself feel amazing, take this day as a chance to really turn your partner on and leave them feeling amazing. Make them the main focus of your attention instead.
Ask them what they want and see if you can make it possible. A good way to make things interesting is to add sex toys to the bedroom. This is something that often intimidates people, but if you check out a few different websites, you’ll find that they tend to have offers on especially for Valentine’s Day! You’ll get more bang for your buck if you spend a certain amount of money, often with a free gift thrown in.
Not sure where to start? There are plenty of great sex toys for couples, or you could get a simple toy such as a vibrating bullet. Many of them are waterproof so you can use them anywhere, making it the perfect small and subtle toy to introduce to your kinky antics.
A romantic Valentine’s Day
Romance and sex can go together really well on Valentine’s Day, if you know how to combine them. Hopefully the suggestions above will help you find the perfect way to do so, but if you have a few suggestions of your own you’d like to share you can do so easily.
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Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
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