Some people like vanilla sex. They don’t want to try any kinky things in the bedroom, and that is okay. But for some people, they want to feel incredible and are more than happy to try anything. They want to push their limits, to see what really turns them on the most. And so they will explore different fetishes with their partner to see what works for them.
If you want to try something new, it can difficult to decide on where to start. There are plenty of different kinks, and so it is worth learning more about the most popular fetishes so that you can see the kinky things others love to try.
There are many different things about your partner’s body that might turn you on. Some people love looking into their partner’s eyes, others enjoy watching their sexy naked ass as they walk around. There are also some who find that feet are the sexiest things about their partner.
It is one of the most popular fetishes. To most people, feet are dirty. Others see them as beautiful, and they want to worship them. Body worship is a big part of the foot fetish, and so you can show your partner how much you love their feet by worshipping them.
There are so many things that you can do with a foot fetish. To begin with, why not offer to give your partner a foot bath followed by a massage? It’ll allow you to get to touch their feet and also get them used to you touching them there.
If they like it, you can then suggest others things. Foot worship can extend on rubbing their feet by allowing you to kiss and lick them. From there you can then try things like foot jobs, where your partner places their feet together to slip them around your cock. It can feel amazing and gives you the chance to get really close to their beautiful feet.
I’ve tried a few different things in the bedroom, but one of my favourites is spanking. A well-timed spank can make the difference between great sex and amazing sex, especially if you set the mood. No wonder it is one of the more popular kinks!
You don’t need any specialist equipment or anything to enjoy spanking. Yes, you could spend money on a spanking paddle if you’d like, but most people are content to use their hands. Get your palm flat and gently tap their ass or their thighs.
The fleshier areas are better for spanking, as then you aren’t likely to do damage to them. If you aren’t sure how hard to hit, go lightly at first. Your partner can tell you if they want it harder, and you’ll have to play around with pressure and speed to find the method that works best for you.
Domination and submission
One of the biggest fetishes is domination and submission. The idea of giving yourself completely over to someone for the purposes of pleasure is a huge turn on for many, especially with books like the Fifty Shades series making the idea even more popular.
A number of dominatrixes have said that it isn’t an accurate representation of BDSM, but that didn’t stop people getting ideas from reading it. They wanted to know what it was really like to submit to somebody, and I can tell you it is a hell of a lot of fun.
It is freeing to give yourself over completely to someone else. You don’t have to worry about figuring out the right technique to use on them, as they will tell you. When you give over control you follow their command, which makes pleasing them easy. They’ll tell you exactly what they want and like, which is going to be incredible for you! You’ll pick up so many things through this direct method.
Of all of the popular kinks, this one is the most taboo. It goes by many names, such as urophilia and the golden shower, but many know it simply as watersports. This is when someone finds themselves excited and aroused by urine. It could be the sight, smell, or even taste of it.
Part of the reason that this is such a popular act to explore is because of the taboo surrounding it. It is dirty and we are told not to want it. Of course, telling someone not to do something just makes it all the more tempting. The taboo around the act itself is part of the turn on, but for many they simply love the act.
Some like the idea of tasting it, but often watersports plays heavily into BDSM. Your chosen dominatrix might choose to humiliate you by pissing on you. They’ll stand over you and relieve themselves on you, and for many the sight is enough to send them over the edge of pleasure.
Your favourite fetishes
We all like different things when it comes to sex, which is why keeping your mind open to different fetishes is such a good idea. There are so many kinky things that you can try, and talking to your partner about them is going to give you some fantastic ideas to spice up sex.
Sex doesn’t have to be vanilla if you don’t want it to be, and it is a lot of fun to try something new. Even if it is something you don’t think you’ll enjoy, give it a go. The worst that can happen is you don’t enjoy it. The best? You discover a hot new thing to do in bed.
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