Here at Escort Ireland we have a great history in calling for safe sex to be practised by everyone, be it with escorts, or in their personal lives. Unwanted pregnancies are awful, as is catching STI’s. We have all heard that numerous times. However, when it comes to safe sex, on escort sites there is a slight twist, with dominatrixes being a popular kind of service provider.
We all know that many of these kinds of sessions can be quite bizarre, but the best thing is that no-one here judges. Still, when you are dealing with BDSM encounters, then you need to be extra careful that nothing goes wrong. This was highlighted by a very sad case that is in the news at the moment.
Tragic Accident
A man died in a “terrible, awful, tragic accident” after being left with a gas mask around his face and tied at his hands, feet and neck by his sexual partner, a court heard.
Dohoon Kim, 36, allegedly died from the restriction of his airways. This was coupled with the effect of drugs both he and friend Kevin Adams, 52, had taken before the encounter.
The pair had taken M-Cat, and GHB, before engaging in “extreme” sexual activity at Adams’ home in Swindon, Wiltshire, on June 12 2015.
Adams denied manslaughter, the case being that he was responsible for Kim’s welfare during the BDSM session.
Pavlos Panayi QC, defending Adams, said his client had not chosen to fall asleep but had “passed out” due to drugs and tiredness
“Kim died two years and three days ago as a result of what everyone in this case will agree is a terrible, awful, tragic accident,” he told the jury.
“Kevin and Kim met to have sex. They had met before and taken these drugs and had the same kind of fun in the past.
“No one was hurt before and no one wanted or expected that anyone would get hurt that night. They had met 12 times before. This was the awful, unlucky 13th time.”
Mr Panayi, in his opening statement to the court, stated Adams was “very unwell” and looked grey when paramedics arrived to treat Mr Kim.
“Could Kevin have stayed awake if he had tried and wanted to or did he pass out – did they both just pass out?” he said.
“It is his case that he passed out. You might not find it surprising given the amount of drugs he had ingested and the strenuous sexual activity for hours and hours.”
The Importance of Safe Sex
I am not going to speak on the merits of this particular case, that is up to the jury. My point is more of a general one. When you engage in BDSM, corporal punishment, or anything like that, you must have a clear head. There is no space for drugs which can mess you up. Drugs are dangerous anyway, and using them in an already potentially lethal environment is just plain stupid.
That is why the dominatrixes on Escort Ireland are so useful. They are real professionals, so not only will you get your naughty experience, you will remain safe whilst you do it.
You will go through all the protocols, like discussing the session beforehand, the use of safewords, and other such things to make sure it is fun, and not dangerous
Two idiots getting together to perform BDSM is a recipe for disaster. Put yourself in the hands of a service provider and you will be all set.
It really does give a new meaning to the term ‘safe ‘sex’.
Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.
When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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