No matter how many times I have said “size doesn’t matter” when it comes to cock, people still tell me that it does. They feel that having mammoth meat in their pants would make them so much better at sex, when it really is all about how you use it. This means that you can have amazing small penis sex if you know how.
I’m happy to tell you that I have had dicks great and small throughout my sex life. I’ve had great sex with larger members and amazing sex with smaller. As they often say, it isn’t the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean. So how can you have amazing small penis sex?
Know your strengths
Good sex isn’t about the size of your cock. It is about how good you are at bringing pleasure to your partner. So if you are on the smaller side when it comes to your penis, you should take a look at your strengths when it comes to sex.
What can you bring to the bedroom? If you are great at foreplay, focus on that. You can make your partner feel amazing before you even have sex. You could try something like mutual masturbation to really slow things down. You get the chance to see what your partner likes before you even put sex on the menu.
You might find that, no matter what position you are in, you are great at touching your partner. You might find it easy to reach around and stimulate her clit while you fuck. Maybe you have a vibrating bullet to hand to spice things up? These are all skills you can use to make sex even better without worrying about your cock pleasing them.
A lot of women find that they need plenty of foreplay in order to get turned on enough to orgasm. If you are amazing at foreplay, you might just find that the size of your penis doesn’t matter to them as much.
Find the right position
There are certain positions which you will find will work so much better for small penis sex. A firm favourite of mine is spooning. Not only does this position make things so much more intimate, but it gives you the chance to reach around during sex and pleasure your partner. You can adjust the angle so that you hit their g-spot with ease, as it only sits a few inches inside them.
Other good positions to try are things like the cowgirl and reverse cowgirl position. These are ideal because they put your partner in control. They are the obvious choice because they will know exactly how to move their body to make it feel good. Adjusting the angle, like you would with spooning, is easy. They get control and pleasure at the same time!
If you like missionary but find that it doesn’t give you or her enough stimulation, you could try nirvana instead. This position is a twist on missionary that feels amazing. Instead of her spreading her legs, she’ll keep them tight together. You’ll then spread yours and slip into her that way. Yes, it can be a bit of a challenge to get into this position, but you’ll find that it is totally worth it. Her pussy will feel so much tighter like this, and you get great depth. The friction also means you’re more likely to hit her g-spot, and if you add a vibe to the mix it will leave to one hell of an orgasm.
Talk about small penis sex!
However, one of the best pieces of advice that I can give anyone wanting to have amazing small penis sex is to actually talk to their partner about it. If you are worried that you aren’t satisfying them, a quick chat can help to put your mind at ease. You might find that they love having sex with you but might want to try some new things in the future.
Having open and honest conversations about sex is the best thing you can ever do. By showing your partner that you are willing to talk about sex and listen to what they have to say, you are giving them the chance to confess their feels. They might feel comfortable telling you about a great kink they want to try, or maybe they have tips for making your foreplay game even better.
If you have a small dick it isn’t the end of the world. In fact, you can still satisfy your partner with small penis sex if you know how. Got a few tips of your own you’d like to share? Let us know by leaving a comment in the box below. Tell us which position is your favourite and how you can make slight adjustments to things like doggy style so that they are size-friendly.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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