A Guide to Having Sex in the Shower!

So, you and your partner have been trying out new locations around the house and feel you have conquered every domain? Maybe not. One of the most likely places to find her naked and half way ready is the bathroom. You can surprise her by jumping into the shower to help her with her cleansing experience, or you can take time to set the scene and playfully lead her into the bathroom. Whichever you choose, make sure you choose a lube that isn’t water-based and pay attention to safety issues. Nothing kills the mood quicker than having to take your partner to A&E with a busted head!

Set the Scene

If you have a day off when you partner is at work, create a sanctuary in your bathroom. First of all, give everything a good clean. No one wants to be staring at soap scum or water marks while doing it. Then place scented candles and/or flowers around the bathroom: on a closed toilet, on a shelf, on the rim of the tub and so forth. This will give the bathroom a romantic glow. As a general rule, we recommend avoiding incense, as the smoke tends to ruin the mood. Draw a hot bath and add some oils if possible. On a practical note, leave the lube somewhere discreet in the bathroom – that way you don’t have to nip off when your partner decides to thank you for your efforts.

naked Man and woman in love are kissing in shower

Fun and Sexy Positions

When it comes to having sex in the shower, you need to find positions that work in small spaces which you can adapt easily. Use the showerhead and the edge of the tub for support.

1- The Leg Lift

This position allows for the couple to face each other. Get your partner to lean back against the wall while you hold her knee in the crook of your elbow. Penetration can be tricky, so take your time and use plenty of lube. Many find it easier to bend their knees to gain access, but work together with your partner to see what feels good and what doesn’t. The sensation of trickling water can heighten the arousal, so have your partner leaning against the wall with the showerhead.

2- Standing Doggy

In this position, your partner needs to bend over and clutch the rim of the tub for support. Her knees should be slightly bent to maintain balance. To begin with, hold on to her hips with one hand, and with the other, take your time to caress her body. When you are ready, penetrate her and use both hands to rock her hips, occasionally caressing her during.

naked Man and woman in love are kissing in shower

3- Standing Doggy (alternate)

In this position, she stands facing a wall with her arms raised and pressed against it for balance. She will need to arch her lower back, thrusting her buttocks towards you. You can get up close and hold her hands against the wall or you can hold her hips. This position is more intimate than the other standing doggy positions. However, if you decide to hold her hips, you are responsible for ensuring you are both balanced. So you might want to place a foot on the edge of the tub/shower.

4 – On Top

All men love it when our woman takes control. This is the trickiest of the positions and will require both of you to be relatively athletic. Take a seat on the edge of the tub and let her lower herself onto you, with her back facing you. You’ll have to hold the edge of the tub for balance; try not to hold her as it will interrupt her movement. As your hands are busy, your partner will have to do all the hard work; using her arms and legs to move herself up and down.

Love kiss couple naked Man and woman in shower

Anal Adventure

If you’ve never tried anal, this could be a great place to try it out. Many find the idea of anal unattractive due to hygiene issues, however the shower, with all its cleansing power, lends itself to this. Use one of the standing doggy positions, mentioned above, when you first give this a go. For other anal positions, ask a Kildare escort. These girls love trying out new positions in the shower, and will be able to recommend the positions that have worked for them. Remember to apply more lube than usual and if she’s uncomfortable, stop immediately. You do not want to put her off trying it again.

Try Oral

Why not take advantage of being clean and fresh, and please each other orally. The one downside with oral in the shower is that it can be quite uncomfortable for the person giving. If you decide to get down on your knees, it may be worth grabbing a towel and placing it under you for comfort. If you are both feeling strong, the person receiving could stand on the edge of the tub and hold on to the shower head for support. That way, the person giving will only have to bend their knees slightly.

When it comes to having sex in the shower; use the water to your advantage and experiment with different positions and sensations. Crank the pressure of the shower up and aim it at your lower torso for added fun. Don’t be afraid to bring props in too if it helps. It’s all about trying something new and having fun. Enjoy!

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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