We all have our fetishes. For some people it might simply be that they like being on top and in control during sex. Others might find themselves turned on in unusual ways. For a lot of people, they find that they have a panties fetish that they cannot resist.
It’s a fetish that shouldn’t be that big of a deal. And yet there are tons of people out there hiding their panties fetish because they don’t feel as though they can tell their partner about it. Instead they’ll go online and buy used panties from kinky sellers.
So how can you explore your fetish properly? We have a few suggestions for you here on the Escort Ireland blog.
“Do I have a panties fetish?”
For the most part everybody loves panties. I feel very sexy when I have a nice pair of panties on, and there is nothing hotter than seeing a sexy woman walking around in a pair. You want to take them off, but this is the accepted norm. What if you suspect you want to take things further?
If you aren’t sure if you have a panties fetish or not, there are a few simple questions you can ask yourself:
Do I like touching panties?
Do I masturbate with them?
Do I sniff or lick them?
These are the most basic of questions you can ask yourself to decide if you have a panties fetish. If you answer yes to them, then you might have a fetish for panties. However, these aren’t the only signs. Some people will collect pictures of panties, and some even like wearing them. This isn’t that unusual in the world of the fetish for panties.
Shopping and fashion show
If you aren’t ready to take the plunge just yet, you can ease your way into it. Why not go lingerie shopping with your partner? You can see which panties they seem to want to buy and maybe give some suggestions for those you like the most?
You can then take your purchases home and ask them to model them for you. They’ll love seeing your reaction when they walk out in some sexy panties and you’ll get to admire the way their ass and pussy look in the lingerie.
The best thing about doing it this way is that you aren’t rushing into things. You can test how your partner reacts to your response to their panties. If it is favourable you can then move on to other things.
Oral over panties
If you are a big fan of oral sex then you can actually combine your love of cunnilingus with your love of panties. Instead of taking them off for oral, you can try simply pulling them to one side to get at that tasty cunt.
It will feel a lot kinkier, especially if you have lifted up their skirt first, and you get to play with their panties while you go down on them.
Want to take things a step further? Try giving them oral through their panties. They’ll get to enjoy your lips through the material and you’ll get to taste and sniff at their panties while they wear them. It’ll be amazing for you both, and it might just be the hint they need to understand you have a fetish.
Don’t steal panties!
Something that many with a fetish for panties do is decide to take them. They might want to keep a pair as a souvenir of their time with that special someone, or they might simply see a pair that they cannot resist.
If you have a panties fetish, try to resist the urge to steal or “borrow” panties. Yes, you want to explore it, but if you get caught it can really strain your relationships.
There are plenty of places where you can actually buy used panties if you want to. This means that you don’t have to steal them, and you can get a pair especially for you to enjoy. What more could you ask for?
Talking about your fetish
Of course the simplest way to enjoy your fetish is to talk to your partner about it. Sounds easy on paper, but it is a lot more challenging in real life. They might already have an idea that you love panties, from the things you have said, but you may need to open up about it.
The best time to talk is right after sex. Post-orgasm you will both be more open to talking. You can tell them that you want to discuss an interest you have with them, and that you’d like them to ask questions about it. This can go a long way to helping them understand it.
They might also want to go away and do some research on it first before discussing more. This is a good thing, as you get to plan how to explore your fetish with them. Doing it alone is fun but it is so much better when you have an understanding partner!
Do you have a fetish for panties? We want to hear from you, so share your stories in the comment box below. You can even give your top tips for talking about your panties fetish.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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