A lot of men find the idea of foreplay boring. They don’t want to have to go through the sometimes laborious task of getting their partner warmed up and ready to go. Instead, they want to get stuck in and really enjoy the moment.
Of course, there are some men out there who love it, but if you are not one of them you will be eager to find useful tips and tricks to make foreplay that little bit easier for you. Why not try out the tips below, or add your own in the comments section?
You can start foreplay earlier, such as before you even meet up with your partner. It might sound strange, but something as simple as sending naughty and dirty texts during the day can be enough to get them horny and eager to start when you see them.
Whatever you send in your messages, though, you need to make sure is something you will then fulfil those promises. It isn’t any fun saying to your partner that you will rub your hands all over their body and then lick them until they scream in orgasm and then not doing it because you want to turn them on.
Say things like “I can’t stop thinking about you”, or “I wish you were here” to get things started, before moving on to the naughty stuff. You can describe what you’d like to do to them, or talk about the last time you both had great sex. It will make your blood start pumping and really turn them on.
A slow, teasing, sensual massage can go a long way when it comes to foreplay. Starting right at the top of their body and moving all the way to the bottom will have them ready to jump on top of you as soon as you take your hands off.
While you are massage, describe what it is that turns you on about their body. If you love the way her bum feels when you are massaging it, tell her and let her know how hard it makes you.
If that isn’t enough to get her going, why not suggest sharing a shower together to help get rid of the body oil? You can rub their body some more and the closeness between you can help get things started.
This goes hand in hand with the teasing mentioned earlier. If you deny your partner the very thing they crave, they will want it even more. You can drive them mad simply by teasing them and not giving in.
The way to make this work best is to give them a long, deep, passionate kiss, moving from their lips to their neck and shoulders to show just how much you want them. Hold them tightly in your arms and don’t give them what they want. They will start to want more and may take action to pleasure you and persuade you to let them have it. Then you can simply follow the cues.
Foreplay isn’t as bad as some make it out to be, but these tips listed above should be enough to help you make it more enjoyable for you and your partner. Have you got some other tips you’d like to share? Let us know by leaving a comment below, or head over to the Escort Ireland forums and join the discussion there.
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