What To Expect As A Dominatrix’s Sex Slave

Giving yourself completely to your mistress is very rewarding. You can please them simply by obeying their every command and letting them use your body as they wish. Becoming a sex slave is one of the hottest things that you can do for your dominatrix.

A woman submits and becomes a sex slave

Often, people aren’t sure what being a dominatrix’s sex slave is really like. Those who have no idea imagine that it is something like Fifty Shades of Grey, where the submissive sex slave has absolutely no say in what happens to them. If you are submitting yourself to a professional dominatrix who knows what they are doing, this isn’t the case.

Here on the Escort Ireland blog we take a look at what it is really like to be a sex slave to a dominatrix, focusing on the things you will expect from your mistress and what your hot dominatrix might expect from you.

Total devotion to them

As a sex slave, you are expected to show total and utter devotion to your mistress. If they ask you to do something, you do it. You should be focused on them at all times. Your attention should not waver from them, as they are the one in control. They are the one you want to please the most.

If you want to be a good slave to them, you will give them your full attention. You will devote yourself to pleasing them and doing everything you can to satisfy them. This might be something as simple as sitting and listening when they tell you to, or they might have more complicated tasks in mind for you to accomplish.

Either way, when your mistress or kinky dominatrix asks you to do something, you should do it. It might seem fun to deny the request or to joke around with it, but this will simply leave your mistress disappointed in you. As a slave, you will really want to please your mistress and leave them feeling good, so focusing on what they are saying and doing what you are told is the best way to do this.

Be flexible… but know your limits

The best thing about enjoying something as hot as BDSM is that you can enjoy a whole range of kinks. You really get to experiment with the things you like in the bedroom, so as a slave, you should be flexible when it comes to trying new things.

You might have a fixed idea in your mind for the things that you want to try in the bedroom, but your mistress might have other ideas. They might want to push you to your limit, taking you to the very edge and seeing how you cope. When this happens, it is important to be able to relax, adapt to the situation, and go with the flow, as this is when you have the most fun.

Of course, that doesn’t mean that you should go beyond your limits. You will know where your hard limits are, and a good dominatrix will talk to you about these limits before the fun starts. By knowing what is definitely not acceptable for you in the bedroom, you are helping your mistress tailor the experience to you.

Consist behaviour

A dominatrix will usually have a number of sex slaves to command. They may never be in the same room at once, but your mistress will have a few, and because of this, they will need to be consistent with their behaviour to their slaves.

When you are spending time as a sex slave, knowing your boundaries and the behaviour that is acceptable is made a lot easier when your dominatrix lays out clear guidelines. They might give you a stern look if you say something out of place, or they might simply tell you that sort of thing isn’t acceptable in their presence.

This consistency will mean that you know what you can and can’t say and do in their presence, meaning you can instead focus on the things that make them happy and please them.

They will care about you

Your mistress might be strict and stern at times, but they will genuinely care about you and your well-being. This means that a good dominatrix will never make you do something knowing that it will make you uncomfortable or take you beyond your limits.

This is why telling them about your hard limits is a good idea. It means that they can take you close to the edge without ever pushing you over, and they will know when things get a little too uncomfortable for you.

Many dominatrixes are skilled at knowing how their slave feels. If they suspect that their sex slave feels on edge or uncomfortable, they might slow things down and give you time to breathe. They might even stop the fun by using the safe word to ask how you feel about it.

Being honest as a sex slave

Communication is a large part of domination. As a sub, you will be expected to tell your mistress what your limits are (both hard and soft) to make sure the fun works out well for you. They will also be expected to explain their rules to you, making sure it is clear what you as a sex slave can and cannot do.

If you disobey in some way, a good dominatrix will take the time to not only punish you, but to also explain what it is that you have done wrong. This means that you are less likely to do it in the future.

By having an open and honest relationship with your dom, you will feel much more comfortable with them. This means that, if your limits change, you can tell them and experiment more in the bedroom. Want to learn a little more about domination? Read our beginner’s guide to domination and let us know what you think. Are you a big fan of being dominated or do you prefer to take control yourself?

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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