The Escort Ireland Guide to Rimming

Rimming has become increasingly popular as our culture gets more comfortable with anal play and sex. However, it is still a technique that is misunderstood and misrepresented – which means many automatically dislike it before they have even given it a go. When performed properly, rimming can be really fun and enjoyable. If you and your partner are thinking of trying this out; use the guide below to learn everything you need about giving the perfect rim job.

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Perform Safely & Cleanly

Before we get down to the ins and outs of rimming, I need to highlight the importance of being safe and clean. There is always the possibility of cuts, faecal matter and other such delights being present, which increases the risk of infections and STI’s. So I suggest making sure that you both get tested regularly for sexually transmitted diseases and infections to ensure that neither of you accidentally pass anything on.

Equally as important is making sure her anus is washed beforehand. There is no greater turn off than getting ready to give her a rim job and discover that she’s not clean back there. So avoid nasty surprises and make sure she has checked herself before you start to play. The same applies to you, if you decide to switch over. If you or your partner are still worried about the risk of infections, or just generally about the hygiene of poking your tongue in that area – using a barrier could be the solution. Plastic wrap, a dental dam or a flat piece of latex on the tongue are potential barrier methods which will reduce any risks without reducing the enjoyment.

Positions

There are a few positions that you can use which will make your experience easier and hers more comfortable. Simply get your partner to get on all fours on the bed. If your partner starts to get tired; get her to lie on her chest while remaining on her knees. That way she’s pushing her bum into the air, which allows you easy access and takes the pressure of her arms. This position will get your partner to naturally spread her bum so that you have easy access to her anus. No-one wants to feel like they are being suffocated! For more positions, why not ask a Laois escort? These ladies love experimenting and sharing their likes and dislikes with others. Who knows what you’ll discover over a drink or two…

Techniques

When it comes to rimming, there is no ‘set way’. There are a number of different techniques you can apply to give your partner pleasure, so take your time testing a few of the following until you find the one that pushes all the right buttons.

Up, Down & All Around

This is good for those who are new to rimming, as it’s easy and allows you to enjoy the experience without worrying too much about getting the technique spot on. To perform the Up, Down & All Around you simply need to use a lot of saliva and keep your tongue loose and open. You simply need lick your partner’s anus up and down using your tongue or make a circular motion with it around and over his anus. Keep your tongue outside of her body; focusing only on her anus and the area surrounding it.

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Poking-in

After a few minutes of the Up, Down & All Around, you may be ready to move on to more advanced techniques. As I said before, there is no right and wrong way to rimming – if you are both enjoying what you’re already doing, keep going with it. The Poking-in, as the name suggests, is where you try to penetrate your partner’s anus with your tongue. To achieve this you will need to make your tongue a little more pointed, and make sure there’s plenty of lube/saliva. Don’t expect your tongue to get lost in there – you’ll only be able to get about half an inch inside.

Other Techniques

There is more to rimming than simply using your tongue. Why not spice things up and try out one of the following. It’s guaranteed to drive her wild.

Gentle Scratching

While you are rimming your partner, try slowly dragging your fingers over the cheeks of her bottom; using your nails to gently scratch the skin. This provides a small amount of stimulation, which when couple with your tongue will work wonders. Spanking can also work – just don’t get over excited as you could potentially hurt her, and ruin your evening.

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Toothy Fruity

I generally caution people when it comes to using their teeth. However, in some instances it can really intensify the experience. When I say using your teeth, I don’t mean biting. This is likely to cause a lot of pain and end the experience (and maybe your relationship) right there. Instead, try dragging your teeth very softly over her anus. This is a great technique to use when your tongue gets tired. Just remember to be slow and gentle!

Use Your Finger

This is another technique for when your tongue needs a break. You can use your finger to perform similar moves and as your fingers are stronger than your tongue, there is the potential to go deeper. Make sure you check that your partner is ready for this first though!

Rimming is a great way to explore anal play, and is a great introduction for those who are thinking of trying anal sex.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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