A Guide to Preparing for a Threesome

The idea of having sex with more than one partner sometimes appears weird. However time and time again it comes out as one of the top fantasies.

For many couples, there comes a time when the desire to spice things up in the bedroom brings up the issue of having a threesome.

When the desire to have a threesome arises, several factors have to be considered to ensure it turns out in the right manner.

Below is a guide to ensure a successful threesome;

Get Rid of Feelings

When thinking of a threesome, feelings should be left behind. Sometimes the threesome may not turn out well, and when this happens, you should not feel so bad about it if there were no feelings involved in the first place.

Joke About it Afterwards

When you engage in it with your friends and you emerge through it still friends, freely talk about it later.

Doing this avoids feelings of guilt, awkwardness or embarrassment creeping in which could ruin the experience later.

The secret is to be lighthearted about it, and this helps the experience stays sexy and sweet

Be Safe

Taking care of yourself and each other wherever sex is involved is a universal law. Ensure you observe safe sex otherwise it might not end up being as fun as anticipated.

In other words, get condoms!

The Participants

When deciding on who to have a threesome with, the issue arises whether it’s with strangers or friends. The answer will depend on the individuals.

Some prefer to have a threesome with strangers to ensure there are no strings attached, and to avoid negative feelings in case something goes wrong.

Others, especially couples, prefer the third party to be a person they are acquainted with and whom they trust.

In the end, all should be in agreement of what route they go down.

Same Sex Chooses Partner

When a couple is deciding to involve a third party, it easier when the girl picks the girl or the man chooses the man. Doing this reduces the possible chances of jealousy creeping in. Remember, it’s hard to imagine your girlfriend or wife coming to you with a guy and trying to talk you into the idea of you engaging in a threesome with him, or the man coming with a hot babe and asking to have sex with her!

Letting the same sex choose the other person helps them keep an element of control, which will help in the long run.

Set and Define Boundaries

It’s good to know your boundaries and stick to them. For couples, especially married ones, their bed is considered sacred. It may therefore be a good idea for the threesome can go down in a different location such as a hotel. This helps eliminating unnecessary negative feelings later.

Also discuss how far you are willing to go during the threesome (what to engage in and what not to) It’s good to know your boundaries and those of your partner and to observe them prior and during the threesome.

It’s Not a Relationship

When you are having a third party come into this type of arrangement, it’s good to be aware that it’s not a relationship. When it’s over the third party should under no circumstance be left to sleep over. However good the threesome was, prolonging it might not be a good idea and it may lead to problems.

Always be aware that the threesome is just for exploration and pleasure and nothing to cling on to. Remember you and your partner are each other’s main concern, and the threesome should not affect that.

Make Use of An Escort

A Dublin escort, with their expertise and know-how, will not only make a threesome fun but also ensure safety for all. They will make the situation enjoyable for all, creates opportunities for learning new things while at the same time eliminating the unwanted issues, such as emotional attachment.

We hope you found to having a threesome useful. Let us know if you did in the comments section below.

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Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

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