We all love orgasms, don’t we? Hey, if we didn’t, the human race would have died out a long time ago. However, another thing that both men and women have known since caveman times is the fact that it is harder for women to orgasm than guys.
It is actually a bit of a paradox, as unlike men, women have 8 different ways they can orgasm. That is right, you heard me correctly, 8!
Well, today we are going to talk about them all, and give a brief description on how to make them happen. I have no doubt this will teach all of you at least one thing!
So here goes.
1) The Clitoral Orgasm
The most common type, and the easiest to have, this is when the orgasm is caused by stimulation of the clitoris (no prizes for getting that one)
Oral sex, and manual stimulation with a hand or a sex toy before or during sex is the way to go.
2) G-Spot Orgasm
The G-spot is located two inches inside of the vagina on the FRONT wall. That is the one away from the anus, not near it. If you hit it, then there is a good chance she will have an incredible orgasm.
3) The Anal Orgasm
There are many nerve endings inside the anus, so by doing it right, she could be on the fast-track to a heavenly experience.
To make it happen, use plenty of lube, and start with the finger before the penis goes in there. If it starts to feel uncomfortable, either pile on more lube, or stop. Pain doesn’t lead to orgasms.
4) The Blended Orgasm
I hadn’t heard about this one. This is where two areas (such as the clitoris and the G-spot) are stimulated together. The guy will have to have great eye-hand coordination for this one as it is the equivalent of patting your head whilst rubbing your tummy. It sounds easy, but it really isn’t.
5) Cervical Orgasm
As the name suggests, this happens when penetration goes really deep. Seriously though, the woman has to be really aroused for this to work, as if she isn’t, she can get cervical bruising.
Doggy is the best position to get those deep thrusts, so this will most likely happen when you are doing this position
6) The U-spot Orgasm
Apparently, the urethra isn’t just about pee, and actually hides some parts of the clitoris.
There is such thing as a urethra vibrator, but standard clitoral vibrators work also. Just be aware the urethra is prone to infection, so be careful.
7) The A-spot Orgasm
This one is a bit risky as it can be painful, but if it works it will put a smile on her face.
The A-spot is the ‘anterior fornix exogenous zone’, located right above the cervix, in the area of the belly button.
To make it happen, use plenty of lube and lots of foreplay. Then touch the A-spot with the pad of a finger or a toy, and then pull down across the front wall. You should then get the stimulation you are looking for.
8) The Nipple Orgasm
It is fair to say that not every person can have a nipple orgasm, but those who can are very lucky indeed.
On the internet, a woman called Audrey explains how it can be done.
“Massage the area around your breasts, torso, and tummy to tease yourself, and encourage circulation around your chest. Then, circle and caress your breasts using a feather-like touch. Don’t touch your areola (area around the nipple) or nipples until you are seriously aroused. Once you feel like you can’t wait any longer, run your fingers around your areola and start to gently pinch your erect nipples from base to tip.
“This should result in multiple waves of pleasure washing over you.”
You need to be aware that not every woman can have each of these orgasms. They are however a great way of experimenting to find out what the lady likes.
Who knows, you may both discover something absolutely wonderful.
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