People obsess over sexy. They want to know everything about it, from the perfect positions to try and the best games to play to the number of times you should be having sex each week. They believe there is a perfect recipe when it comes to sex, and that if you aren’t following the recipe, you simply have a very boring sex life. When Fifty Shades first hit stores, people were eager to try out the kinkier side of things, and it seems now that kink is more popular than ever for a little bedroom fun!
With kinky sex becoming more and more popular, and the number of people eager to try something different and fun in bed, we have found ourselves wondering if people have always wanted to secretly try out kink, or if it is just that we are all a lot more open minded when it comes to sex. We take a look at why people might suddenly be more and more interested in the world of kink, and if it is that we all secretly want to try out kinky sex.
Fifty Shades of Grey
The Fifty Shades of Grey books and film are hot topics of conversation for many. Fifty Shades is like Marmite. Bring them up and you’ll have some who absolutely love the books and others who can’t stand them. For dominatrixes everywhere, it is more a case of the latter.
They, like many others, see that the “BDSM” shown in the books is much more like abuse, as the main character is very rarely consenting. Even if she is consenting to it, she gets visibly upset and distressed about what is happening, and that is a cue to any good dom to stop.
So, while we might not like the Fifty Shades books, they have done a lot for the world of kink. Suddenly there are so many more products out there for us to buy, and with so many people interested in trying the kind of things that Christian Grey gets up to, kink is even more popular than ever!
Want to get some bondage rope, or perhaps make your own little dungeon like you’ve seen in the film? You can do, and watching the movie might help to inspire you with the things that you do and don’t want to try out.
High street stores
There was once a time where going into an adult store on the high street meant going at a certain time of day, when you wouldn’t be seen. You’ve walk in and slip into the back of the shop, where the adult items would be.
Then you might get the chance to watch one of the hot and kinky films they have in the back room with others just as kinky and eager as you, and once you were finished you’d slip out, avoiding eye contact and pretending that nothing had happened.
Now, kinky sex shops are all over the high street, and they don’t even have boarded up windows! Yes, the windows might instead have mannequins in sexy lingerie to tempt you in, but you know that the back of the shop is where the goodies are.
We no longer have to hide our kinky curiosity, as we can simply go into the shop and check out the goodies on offer. The staff in the shops are also very helpful, willing to tell us which toys are their favourites and which might suit our needs the best. It makes trying out kink so much easier.
You can’t really go anywhere without seeing the evidence of just how far technology has come. How many times have you walked into a restaurant or bar, only to find that everyone in there is using their mobile phone to go online?
The internet has done wonders for us. If we are at all curious about something, we can simply go online and search for it! All of our questions can be answered in an instant, and that includes when they involve the kinkier things.
There are so many great forums for you to get involved in and discuss kink that you can easily find your type of people in an instant, and they can give you some great advice if you are hoping to try something new in the bedroom. You can even find the best dominatrixes around!
Not only that, but there are so many online shops where you can find the more unusual speciality items to buy for your kinky fun, whether it is a cock and ball torture device or a St. Andrew’s cross, that your every kinky desire can be fulfilled at the touch of a button!
Do we secretly want to try kink?
The question is, do we really all secretly want to try out kink in the bedroom, or is it simply that we talk about sex so much more than it seems as though we have become a country of kinky people in bed?
Personally, I know that I like a little kink in bed. It helps to spice things up and there really is nothing quite like giving up control to someone else. They will tell you exactly what to do and how you must act to make them happy, and pleasing your partner is one of the greatest turn ons there is.
I think we are all a little curious about it, but I’d like to hear from you. Are you a fan of the kinky things like bondage, domination, and unusual sex positions, or are your tastes in the bedroom that little bit tamer? Do you think we are all secretly interested in trying out BDSM?
You can let us know what you think, whether you agree or not, by visiting the Escort Ireland forum and joining in the discussion there. You could even talk about your favourite kinky acts on the fetish scene, or simply leave a comment in the box below to let us know your darkest thoughts.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.