Men are obsessed with their penises, even if they don’t realise it. Most men live in constant fear that their manhood is not big enough. Well I have some good news for you all – a recent study, involving 800 men of all sizes, shapes and races, concluded that the average penis size is 5.5 inches. Could you demonstrate with your hands that exact size? No? Neither can most women! In a nutshell, women simply don’t care about size. There will be some who will say that it is very important, but they are few and far between. Penises are marvellous toys, that can make their wildest fantasies come true, and no matter what they look like, they will thrill and excite women. If you don’t believe us, ask your partner, or a Donegal escort. The latter will spare you the embarrassment and these ladies are known for their honesty.
However, for some guys out there, there is the fear that their penis may be too big. They may have had a bad sexual encounter in the past, which was subsequently blamed on their penis size. Whatever the reason, you can never be ‘too big’. Sure, you may be bigger than average, and this may restrict certain activities, but you are not going to split your woman in half! The truth is, whether you are big or not, it’s what you do with it that counts. In a recent poll taken among women, 82% agree that the quality of sex is much more important than quantity. Whether a penis is 3.5, or 9 inches, if used properly, it will leave her wanting more.
It’s What you do With It
First things first; use lots of lube. Even if your woman is normally pretty wet, the more lube that you use the better. Lubricants will become her best friend as it lessens the friction experienced with larger penises. Experiment with flavoured lubes which you can using during foreplay, and will get you both into the habit of applying the slippery stuff. While we are on the subject, extend your foreplay sessions by taking it nice and slow. Take the time to lavish attention on your woman’s hotspots, with plenty of genital touching and kissing. This will ensure that she is amply aroused and ready for penetration.
The woman-on-top positions are perfect for larger men, as it lets your partner control the depth of penetration. Let her slowly lower herself on to you until you’re in as deep as she can handle. This position isn’t restricted to the bedroom either – you could try this on a chair, in the car, on a kitchen counter and so forth. The variation will keep things exciting.
You can also try the classic missionary, but keep in mind that the more your partner tilts her pelvis, the deeper the penetration. It may be knocked for being boring, but in some circumstances it’s the best option. You can easily spice things up by adding props such as handcuffs, or get your partner to dress up. Having sex sideways also works, as neither one of you will be able to fully thrust. The limited range of motion can be sexy, and similar to missionary, this position allows you to make out at the same time.
Finally, make sure to take it slow. Throwing your penis around like a bull in a china shop will not do anyone any favours. Enter her slowly and carefully build up to a more intense thrust, so that she’s not caught off guard by any sudden thrusting. And don’t forget, lubrication comes and goes. So, be sure to keep some handy and apply when needed.
Anal Sex
Unfortunately guys, anal sex and big penises are a deadly combination. A vagina was designed to have objects go in and out, so it’s more prepared to expand. The anal canal, however, was not intended for such an activity and is subsequently less elastic. It’s in no way impossible, but anal sex with a larger penis tends to cause most women a lot of pain. If you are determined to give it a go, it may take a few sessions to get your partner relaxed and comfortable – so be patient. The same goes for any variation of the doggy-style position. This position allows for extra-deep penetration, so it works well for those with a smaller penis. For larger men, it can cause extreme discomfort.
No penis is too big or too small for any vagina. It’s what you do with it that will guarantee if you and your woman have a great time or not. Don’t forget to communicate with your partner; before, during and after to find out what’s working for her and what isn’t. There isn’t a sexual problem that cannot be overcome with mutual understanding and communication. Keep experimenting and mixing up positions until you find something that work for you both, then you’ll both be able to enjoy a happy, healthy sex life!
Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.
When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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