Can An Erotic Massage Really Make Sex Better?

Sometimes, getting in the mood for sex can be difficult. Teasing your partner and enjoying foreplay together can really help to turn you both on. It can also work to distract you from the stresses of life. However, an erotic massage can often make a huge difference in the bedroom.

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Giving or receiving an erotic massage feels fantastic. You get the chance to slowly touch your partner all over, making their body feel incredibly heated and excited for what is to come… but can an erotic massage really make sex better?

What is an erotic massage?

There are so many different types of massage for you to enjoy. You can try so many with your partner, from aromatherapy to body-to-body and even a prostate massage, if you so desire. So what is it that makes erotic massages so different?

The main difference is the purpose of the massage. With sports massages, for example, your masseuse will want to help you with an injury and further healing. With erotic massages, they instead to turn you on as much as they can.

This means that they will be focusing on your erogenous zones. They’ll slowly stroke and touch you in many different ways, hoping to get you aroused and ready for sex. They want to excite you, but that does not always mean you get to fuck. The massage could finish with a happy ending, but a lot of the time it is simply to get your blood pumping.

They want to turn you on as much as possible
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De-stress

Most of the time, we will have a hard time connecting to our partner because we are stressed. We don’t get to enjoy sex as much as we should because we are stressed. Stress can come into our lives in many way. Perhaps you are worrying about bills or have a lot going on at work to occupy your mind?

These little stresses can build up to ruin your sex life. It might sound strange, but when your mind is on that big family event coming up, you stop enjoying sex as much. In fact, it can lead to problems with ejaculation and with getting it up in the first place!

A massage can help with that. Feeling someone touching your body all over, slowly trying to tease you and turn you on, is fantastic. They can help to relax you, and you won’t feel as stressed as long as they are touching your body.

Feeling stressed? A massage can help
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Improves intimacy

If you have been dating the same person for a while you might find that you don’t make as much time for each other as you should. The connection between you can dwindle, and getting that spark back into your relationship is a real challenge.

In order to properly enjoy an erotic massage, you have to make time for it. It isn’t something you can rush, and this will guarantee you and your partner the time together that you truly deserve.

As a result, it can improve the intimacy between you. You’ll spend time together simply touching and stroking each other. That’s it. Your minds will be entirely on each other, and as you take the time to explore you’ll find that little spark of passion coming back into your life. What could be better?

If you've lost that spark a massage can help you find it again
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Fantastic as foreplay!

The thing that makes erotic massages stand out from other types is that you are trying to turn your partner on. You want them to feel good, and so you are hoping to get them hard or wet for you.

This encourages you to take your time. You won’t rush through it, like you might with foreplay. Instead you’ll take your time, wanting to tease them as much as possible. You’ll touch every single inch of their body until they beg you for more.

If you struggle to spend enough time on foreplay, an erotic massage can help you. You’ll properly dedicate your time to turning them on, which can lead to some of the most incredible sex of your life. So why not give it a try?

We often skip foreplay, but massages give you the chance to slow things down
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Your favourite massages

There are so many different types of massages that it can be difficult to decide which one you should try. While erotic massages can feel good, there are others such as soapy massages, Thai massages, and even Nuru massages.

Which one is your favourite and why? You can let us know by leaving a comment in the box below. What makes your favourite type of massage so good to try?

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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