Rimming, also called Anilingus, is still a taboo subject among many people, whilst others seem to be enjoying this sensual and immensely intimate practice. Both the rimmer and the rimee enjoy this sexual approach, not only as a method to offer pleasure and get close to each other, but also in domination cases, as a humiliation technique.
If you have no idea what I am talking about, or you know what this is but have never tried it, check out the following rimming guide.
It’s Time to Speak Tongue in Cheek!
What is rimming? Well, it’s an act that involves offering sexual pleasure through licking and kissing another’s person anal area. You don’t actually have to insert the tongue, since the circular motions are enough.
Like every time you are interested in trying something new, you have to talk to the other person included in your fantasy. So you cannot give or receive rimming without DISCUSSING IT FIRST. If talking about your desires seems weird, imagine how odd it would be to stick your tongue inside his anus without announcing this coming.
Anyway, since it’s beginning to be a more common practice with each passing day, you partner will probably agree with trying it. If you are interested in exploring rimming with an escort, make sure she is into it before setting up a date!
Once you’ve agreed that rimming is the next thing you’ll try, you must begin preparing yourself.
Hey, How’s Your Anus?
The first thing you have to do is to clean yourself. I know you are a clean person but…are you? If you want to try this sexual activity you must be really clean. So, pay a little more attention to your anal area.
Would you like to go to somebody’s anus, planning to do a bit of hot sexy rimming, but instead of a neat, clean surprise, you get exactly the opposite? Well, your partner has similar wishes, so remember to get CLEANED AND TRIMMED!
Rimming – Tease Before You Please
Now, let’s say you are the giver, OK? What do you do? Please don’t say you’re going to lick your partner’s ass until you blow his mind. Well, you can do that, but start with a bit of WARMING UP!
Who doesn’t like to be teased? So, using your tongue, lips and hands, take good care of the area around his butt for a while. Making your partner wait for the goodies intensifies the whole sexual act. This is a great way to begin your kinky play, isn’t it?
Are You Ready to Toss the Salad?
After you have teased him, it’s time to please him! But how are you going to do that if you are a beginner? The first thing you should know is that there is no right or wrong way when it comes to rimming. People are different and so are the things they enjoy. However, since you are beginners, you have to try a couple of things before you figure out what you like.
As you probably imagine, the TONGUE and the circular moves are the most important part of rimming. In order to see what your partner likes, you can play with your tongue in different manners. Your LIPS have an important role as well. Kissing and sucking the ass and the whole area around it will make your partner moan with pleasure. If not, it’s time to involve your HANDS and FINGERS and to use them wisely. That means you have to be gentle, though playing a bit rough won’t hurt anybody.
What else? BREATH and TEETH can offer different kinds of pleasure as well. Blowing warm air in that area and adding a couple of soft bites can make the experience very interesting. However, be careful with those teeth!
When can you bring in the toys? Though this sounds like a tremendous idea, I don’t recommend using butt plugs or dildos on your first play date. They are fantastic for rimming, but depending on how shy your and your partner are, you might want to keep this surprise for another time.
But FLAVOURED LUBRICANTS are great for enhancing the feelings, especially for the rimmer, who might not be able to get used to the butt taste. Of course the fact that it makes the rimming slippery is a plus for the receiver, so it’s a win-win situation.
Now, Change Positions!
If you are a creative person, you might want to add a couple of more ideas to this list, once you get comfortable with rimming. However, as a beginner, you should go for these three positions.
The first one is the DOGGY- SYLE. Here, the receiver might want to lie on the chest to be more comfortable, while the rimmer pleasures him from behind. This is a great position because it opens one persons butt while offering a great view to the other.
Of course, if this is not your style, you can give a bit of anal pleasure while your partner is STANDING UP, facing the wall and you are behind him, on your knees. However, in case you are looking for something more comfortable, let your partner SIT ON YOUR FACE!
Wait, What About Protection?
As with every sexual play, protection is very important. As you can probably imagine, the anal area is hosting many bacterias, no matter how clean you are. So, while playing with the balls is not only far from being dangerous, but actually recommended, going from the butt to the vagina is NOT A GOOD IDEA. The vagina is sensitive and needs extra attention, so be careful.
Now, if you feel uncomfortable licking someone’s butt without protection, relax because there are some small, square pieces of latex called DENTAL DAMS that you can put over the anus before starting the play. Of course, just like condoms they can fail when protecting you, but using them is better than no safety measure at all.
Even if you are not scared by the thought of giving your partner a bit of anal pleasure without oral protection, sanitizing your mouth is still a good choice. Therefore, after you’re done with rimming, rinse your mouth, using ANTISEPTIC or MOUTHWASH.
And there is the beginners’ guide to rimming. Have you ever tried offering anal pleasure to your partner? Have you been delighted by a rimming session? Your experiences can help newbies understand this sexual act better. So, don’t be shy and let us know by commenting below!
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