When people hear about “watersports” they immediately think “ Who would do that?” Well, probably your partner, but if your reaction is this, you’ll never know, will you?
Are you a bit shocked? You have trouble understanding why people wouldn’t do “watersports” or why your partner might be into this kinky stuff? If you are in the first category, you are probably imagining yourself on a jet ski, in Malibu, though we are actually talking about sex, now.
Those who can’t believe there is huge chance their partners are into watersports, should understand that there are many people who like what they don’t, or who dislike what they love. It’s simple, people’s sexual desires and fantasies are not things that can be controlled by others and they should never be judged.
And to be honest, if there is a name for it, it’s not that weird. Doesn’t this mean there are many people who do it?
Different Strokes for Different Folks
The planet is full of people who look different, feel different and dream different. What makes you think that a gentle touch on the back is something that excites everybody?
Well, it’s not. Some people enjoy things other see as gross and useless. Watersports is one of them! And it does not refer to having sex in a pool, although many of you find that very sexy.
What is it, then? Well, it’s a name given to erotic play that involves bodily fluids, usually urine, saliva and less commonly blood. Urine seems to be the most used fluid in erotic or BDSM play.
Before judging, think about it this way: there are people who like to ejaculate on their partner’s face, right? Well, even though many don’t like to see it this way, technically there is no difference between them, and those who prefer playing with urine.
Knock, Knock, “Urine” Luck
Why, but why? Many might ask. It appears that there are three main reasons why people like watersports. The first one is intimacy. For some people, sharing bodily fluids is a way of feeling and expressing the immense connection between them.
Another reason for people to use urine in their foreplay seems to be humiliation. Many people are very excited when they feel humiliated and if this works for them, why not?
Last, but not least, people who are into dominance/submission are very into using urine in order to create the hierarchy. This makes sense, doesn’t it? Even if you are not into these kinky ways of satisfying yourself or your partner, you can see the logic.
Not judging other people’s tastes and manners of enjoying life, as well as sexual activities is one thing. But being part of it is different. You should try something only if you want to, and if you do, you must know exactly what you are getting into.
So, if you are curious about watersports, you don’t have to worry, since it is safe and it can be quite fun. However, this depends on you and on how your brain functions. Anyway, if you want to try it, just keep in mind the following tips, that can actually help you enjoy the watersports experience.
The Golden Rules of…Golden Shower
So, you’ve decided to step out of your boundaries and try something new. Well, new for you, anyway. The first thing you should keep in mind is that there is nothing to feel ashamed about. This doesn’t make you a freak and even if it did, so what? Ricky Martin expressed his interest in golden shower loud and clear. Did he seem embarrassed to you?
A very important rule when it comes to trying sexual things is making sure both of you are on the same page. You wouldn’t like to wake up in the morning with your partner peeing on you, would you? So, make it clear. Talk about it, and when you agreed on experimenting the golden shower you can get ready!
You’re going to ask how can somebody get ready for watersports unless we are talking about surfing? Oh well, one golden rule is referring to the place of action. If you don’t want to ruin your mattress, I advise you to skip the bed. Do it on the floor, in the bathroom, or even better, in the shower. There’s nothing to be destroyed there, is it?
So, your partner said, “yes”, you saved the bed, what now? The best idea is to drink lots of water beforehand. Both of you. This is not only to make sure you have enough reserve for the golden shower but also to make everything more enjoyable. The more water you drink the better. Even though many people prefer a stronger scent, it’s better to start this way, in order to see if you actually fancy the experience.
Now, just keep it fun. As I mentioned this is something people use for humiliating and D/S, but if you are not into that, begin with a relaxed approach.
No Expectations, No Disappointment
I am sure you’ve seen some porn movies and they made you experience new practices, but not all of them worked out for you. Well, this means you already know that porn is far from being realistic sometimes. So, keep in mind that even the theory seems hot, the reality can turn out to be exactly the opposite.
Also, what might freak you out when you hear about it, can actually be something you immensely enjoy. So, even though now you see “watersports” as something you would never do, you can end up a golden shower junkie. Never say never!
She is most well known for her sex advice pieces, yet also has a major interest in sexual health and other serious issues. However, this is all done with a quirky style that is unmistakably hers.
When she isn't working, Anna is a fitness fanatic, and enjoys going away with her partner for various weekend trips.