Do you think that the society we live in makes us ignore many possibilities of pleasure? Do the masses make you feel like a freak for having a couple of fantasies they don’t have?
Well, if we compare our society to what used to be a couple of years ago, it is more than obvious that “It opened its mind” a lot, accepting many people and behaviors, which used to be not only taboo subjects, but even illegal aspects of life.
Let’s think about masturbation. It is something natural NOW, but it was banned in many cultures. And if this example is not enough, remember how homosexuality used to be considered ( and still is in many parts of the world) At this moment, people are OK with most things they couldn’t accept, in the past.
However, there still are things that are considered “too weird” for the present, there are many people labeled because of one sexual act, and too many forced to hide their fantasies for fear of being tagged as perverts and freaks.
Oh well, guess what? We are all freaks and we all have wishes and desires. So what if some are different? Nothing is black or white, and many of your fantasies meet other’s in the huge gray area that exists.
At this moment, there seem to be a new sexual practice that is trending, and it’s called pegging. Does this sound funny? The name might be, but the actual thing is considered one of the anal practices that offer men a surrealist orgasm.
From Perversion to Alternative Lifestyle
Reading fabulous orgasm and butt might make you think “ Why the hell is she calling anal sex pegging? “. Oh well, how much do you love anal sex? How about swapping? Disgusted much? Please read on, you might actually change your mind!
As you probably understood when I mentioned swapping that pegging is a sexual practice that involves a woman anally penetrating a man with a strap-on dildo. And, judging by the number of women who are buying strap-ons, instead of dildos, people ( that means both men and women) are really getting into pegging.
Why? But WHY? Many men find anal stimulation extremely pleasurable and most people who talked about their pegging experiences stated that they liked it not only because they actually had an incredible orgasm, but also because “receiving” gave them a different, “illuminating” perspective on sex. We have to believe them, don’t we?
Now, regarding the orgasm, it should be true since, during anal, the prostate is stimulated ( and some also need a…hand). So, here’s how they had an orgasm!
When it comes to the experience itself, you don’t have to be into BDSM to want less control from time to time. It’s fun for her when he “gives it”, why shouldn’t it be fun for him “ to get it”?
What’s in it for the women? Hmm, pleasing her partner, of course! No, we’re not that altruistic. Yes, women love pleasuring their partners and that turns them on. However, they can also use a double-ended ( and even triple-ended!) dildo, or let their pussy be stimulated by the base of the strap-on.
That’s pegging. It might be different from what you’ve experienced until now, but in the end, it’s not such a big deal. It’s just a way offering and giving pleasure mentally, as well as physically.
So are you ready to liberate yourself from the wisdom of society and give into pleasure?
His Mind Is Very Open, But His Asshole…Are You Sure About It?
Remember your first anal? Well, if you’re not Sunny Leone you were probably a bit nervous, weren’t you? This is why you waited until you were ready, and you found someone you trusted. Well, it’s the same for him.
This swapping idea will make him feel vulnerable, so take it easy. Even if he likes rough sex, when it comes to this subject, the bad, horny wolf might turn into a scared puppy.
So, talk about it, understand his position and if he’s not up for it, oh well, NO means No for both men and women.
However, if he wants to try this, you can’t just jump on him, girl. This needs a bit of preparation so, here’s what you have to do.
Get Ready! Get Dressed Up for Pegging!
Now, that you have his consent, it’s time for shopping. Yes, preparing for pegging can be quite fun. So, what you need is a cock, of course. Don’t get the first one you see. You wouldn’t put the first penis that pops out in front of you, inside you, right?
So, think about him and remember what you talked about while choosing the dildo. You don’t want it to be too big, especially if we’re talking about a newbie. Once you’ve considered his wishes and fears, let’s think about yours.
Do you want something in your pussy while pegging? Why not? Pick something that gives you physical pleasure as well. It might be a double-ended or even triple-ended dildo. It’s your call. Also, don’t forget about the harness, if the dildos you chose don’t have one.
What else? LUBE! Lots of LUBE! You have to wet that fake cock as much as possible. You actually know why, so you don’t need too much training on this part, do you?
ButtDay Sex
Dear women, you know how important being relaxed when having sex ( especially anal ) is, don’t you? It is actually the same thing. Make him horny and help him unwind just as you wanted him to do it. Be tender, be rough, be everything you know he likes!
And don’t forget to wet “your” cock! A LOT!
Regarding the position, it’s nothing you don’t know already. If he’s a newbie, don’t do it doggy-style. It might be easier to penetrate him this way, but this position makes it hard for you to see his reaction and for him to have a bit of control in case it’s get too intense.
The best options are spooning him or letting him sit on your lap. Anyway, you should let him choose the position…the first time.
What to Expect from this Sexperience?
Everybody has its own expectation, as well as different experiences. However, there are some similar reports from people who tried pegging. So, many peggers stated that their orgasms were much better than they had before while others are into this sexual practice because of the psychological pleasure involved.
As they say, both sexes really enjoy the swapping; men because they feel the need to be dominated sometimes, and women because they find it interesting to control and see their men lose control under them.
So, just do it with the idea of a boundaries challenge and sexual liberation in your mind. You may like it or you may not. So, either you become a pegger or you go back to enjoying vanilla sex just like you always did. No big deal!
She is most well known for her sex advice pieces, yet also has a major interest in sexual health and other serious issues. However, this is all done with a quirky style that is unmistakably hers.
When she isn't working, Anna is a fitness fanatic, and enjoys going away with her partner for various weekend trips.
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