A Guide To Fingering A Woman

Do you like getting your hands wet? Well, keep reading this article! Fingering a woman is both pleasurable for you and your gorgeous companion if you like to watch her body wriggle up and down as she cums. If you want your sexy acquaintance to send you a text message asking you to paddle her pink canoe, you better learn how to please her with your magic hands.

A sexy woman in denim shorts

What’s the rush?

Unless a woman gets wet by the sight of your hot body, you can’t just dive in straight away. You wouldn’t jump into the shallow end of the pool, would you? If you have watched a lot of porn videos, the studs never enter their fingers inside the lady straight away. They would get her blood rushing down to her pussy by simply stroking or rubbing her slit.

Let’s use oil massage videos as an example. You would see the hot masseuse gently rubbing the lady’s inner thighs before slowly sliding his hands closer to her oily cunt. You should do the same, not performing an oil massage, in particular, but rubbing the woman’s legs from the ankles up. This kind of foreplay would make the woman feel anticipated to get the ball rolling.

While you massage her clit, you would begin to see your partner’s breathing slowing down, or becoming more vocal with her moans. Don’t forget to caress her lips, remember, you can’t just play with one part of the pussy, you have to pleasure ALL of the pussy. That’s when you can start teasing her from the inside by sliding one finger in slowly, and moving it back and forth get her juices flowing.

A good tip would be to keep your palm pressed against her lips so you’re rubbing her clit at the same time. After that, you can give her a little surprise by pushing your finger in hard, making her gasp as she arches her back. From then on, you can enter another finger and begin to thrust faster.

Make sure you have a towel at hand!

It always makes me moan when someone builds up the tempo as he tickles my g-spot; this is a good way to make your companion squirt. One day, a former boyfriend of mine decided to christen not just his room, but the whole house. His roommates haven’t moved in at the time so we took the opportunity to try out every room in the house.

We were near the end of our sex-capade and decided to finish it off by fucking on the dining table. I was getting close to climaxing so he decided to make me kneel on a chair. My legs were spread and he was fingering me fast and hard. The moment I came, I kid you not, a puddle formed all over the kitchen floor. I couldn’t control myself! He had to take his fingers out because of the pressure of my juices building up in my pussy. I was left gasping for air with my cum trickling down my thighs and ankles.

If this is something you want to achieve, make sure you finger your lady hard with two fingers when she’s close to cumming. Furthermore, make sure you’re in a position where you won’t miss your target, so stand or sit in between her legs where your fingers won’t be able to slip.
Taking it a step further…

Normally, two fingers can make any woman cum, but if you want to be a little adventurous, you can try pushing in one more finger. Ladies like to feel filled up, but make sure she’s very wet or have a bottle of lube sitting next to you. The worse thing to happen is stretching her pussy to the point where the skin around her hole begins to split.

If you’ve managed to get a third finger inside her, put another one in, then try to get your whole hand inside. This would take a little time to accomplish as your woman needs to feel relaxed enough to get fisted. However, if you read her body language and see how she writhes against your hand, fisting can be achieved.

Pleasuring all the holes

What about if you want to enter in the back entrance? Similar to fisting, not everyone is into it and you would need to give her time to relax before putting a pinky up her asshole. Nonetheless, it is a pleasurable thing to experience.

Have you ever heard of the song by the band ‘Steele Panther’ called ‘The Shocker’? You can get tips from the lyrics when you want to pleasure her other hole. You basically clench your ring finger, where you’re sticking your index and middle up together and your pinky finger out. Afterwards, you can fuck her by having two fingers inside her pussy and one inside her asshole. Finger her slowly at first and then build up your tempo later.

Do you want to be a little sadistic in a cheeky way? Once your partner has cum all over your hand, keep fingering her but slower than before, to watch her jolt and clench her inner thighs together as the sensation between her legs sends her into override. She might even squirt a little more if you continue to invade her pussy with your fingers.

You mustn’t think that fingering a woman is like trying to finish a marathon, you should have fun at the same time. Toy with her clit or stroke her lips to see what kind of reaction she would make, I’ve had experiences when some men just love watching me move my hips around as they thrust their fingers inside me hard. If you’re going to have a romantic rendezvous with your sexy partner soon, why not try some of these tips out today?

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Zoe Jaspers has worked in the adult industry for over a year, but she has already gained a fantastic reputation in the field. As a writer, she is passionate about bringing the reader some of the most interesting blog content around.

She is possibly most famous for her erotic stories, but is equally adept at giving top quality sex advice, all the time bringing in her 'personal experiences'.

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