When it comes to activities in the bedroom, there tend to be two types of people: those who know exactly what they like and stick to only that, and those who are more than happy to try something out of their comfort zone. These people are often referred to as being try-sexual.
Try-sexuals are very open-minded when it comes to sex. They are willing to try pretty much anything in the bedroom, even if they think it will be a little out of their comfort zone. After all, how else will they know that they don’t like it unless they try it?
How do you know if you are a try-sexual? We take a look at how you know and give you three reasons why you should try it!
What is a try-sexual?
Try-sexuals, as explained earlier, are those who are more open-minded about sex than most people. They are quite willing to give anything a try in the bedroom, even if they feel that it is a little out of their comfort zone.
The main reason for this is that they love experimenting. By experimenting, they might discover new things that they love in the bedroom. Sure, they might also find things that they don’t enjoy. But this means that they know and so don’t have to do it again if they don’t want to.
The term first became popular when Samantha Jones used the term in Sex and the City, proudly declaring “I’m a try-sexual. I’ll try anything once!”. And since then more and more people have been happy to follow in her footsteps.
1. More sexual experience
We all hope to get more experience in the bedroom. Of course, the only way to do this is to have more sex. Whether you have a lot of partners or you spend most of your time in the bedroom with just one person, experience can help a lot.
If you stick to the same stuff, then your partner might not be very impressed. However, try-sexuals have a wide range of knowledge when it comes to sex. The huge amount of experience from simply trying anything means that they are prepared for almost all things their partner could throw at them.
2. Cease boredom
Sometimes, you can get a little fed up of sex. It is because we do the same things over and over again without changing anything. When this happens, it can be difficult to really enjoy our time with our partner.
By constantly trying new things, you are going to stop being bored. Not only will you gain new skills, but you’ll also make sex more exciting again! No more boredom in the bedroom, as you’ll constantly have new and exciting things to try!
3. Just like the movies
Some people feel that they cannot be a try-sexual because they do not have the imagination. It puts them off of trying new sex because they run out of ideas.
Well, if you watch a lot of porn then you have absolutely everything you need already! You can simply put on a porno and see what things they are getting up to in the videos. You’ll get some great and fresh ideas to try… and seeing how it is done on the screen might make your partner feel more eager about doing it.
Open up your mind
When you are a try-sexual you are opening your mind to more thrilling sex, as well as great sexual experience. You don’t even need to have a great imagination to do it! You can simply talk to your partner and see what they want in the bedroom, or turn to porn for some great suggestions.
Do you consider yourself to be one of the many try-sexuals in the world, or are you a little more fussy when it comes to sex? Do you prefer to stick to what you know and love in the bedroom, or are you eager to spice things up?
You can tell us what you think by leaving a comment in the box below. You can even share your suggestions to help others open up their minds to more exciting sex!
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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