Has your job effected your view of men

[Lucy Chambers]

i think this is a rather tragic outlook on life which your current occupation is only going to reinforce. to judge anyone because of their sex, race, religious beliefs etc based on previous experiences is both narrow minded and insulting. it's probably more a reflection
on your own judgement rather than all men being untrustworthy, you hang with players there's a fair chance you'll be played.

Or perhaps she is just giving you her point of view in a realistic way. Golly. Some people really dont have the first clue what subjective means, and that is tragic.

[2timesin30]

Wow very harsh, It is an honest reply and Violette says "maybe I am not the best person to ask". I wish I was well adjusted enough to not judge people stereotypically by my past experiences, but unfortunately I have not managed to master Zen like patience and tolerance. My view of committed relationships is damaged by my past experience, does this mean all women are untrustworthy, absolutely not. But you can be sure at some emotional level I will get in my own way until I resolve this myself. I think if you have nothing to add to this conversation other then judging what others post you are missing the point.

which is exactly what you've just done!!

[Clyde]

Ya, its affected my view of men.

If I see a man with a mobile phone walking and talking like he is lost, I think he is a client.

If I see a man with a 'manbag', I think he is a client.

If I see a man with flowers and chocolates, I think he is a client.

And if I see a chick with a vanity case, I think she is an escort

Other than that, I dont really think about if I trust or like men. I trust or like whoever I trust and like, no matter the gender. But if my significant other came home late with wet hair and a strange smell of babywipes, I am going to be looking for his punting phone

haha your priceless great answer .....PMSL

[2timesin30]

Or perhaps she is just giving you her point of view in a realistic way. Golly. Some people really dont have the first clue what subjective means, and that is tragic.

so your point is, because she's being subjective she can't be challanged?

[max california]

Other than making me realise that I don't think I could be faithful to one, my visiting escorts hasn't changed my view of women generally.

[Violette]

i think this is a rather tragic outlook on life which your current occupation is only going to reinforce. to judge anyone because of their sex, race, religious beliefs etc based on previous experiences is both narrow minded and insulting. it's probably more a reflection
on your own judgement rather than all men being untrustworthy, you hang with players there's a fair chance you'll be played.

I don't hate men, I just dont trust them, it doesn't mean I can't interact with, or be friends with, or even love them. It Just means at the end of the day I will not place myself in a position to get my heart broken by one, simples. If the hundreds of wives were to ever find out what their husbands were up to me, they would be heart broken. It would ruin lives, I am not placing myself in that position. Ever!

[Mousey]

Well to be honest, I never trusted men even before being a WG, so maybe I am not the best person to ask. I have always had a realistic view on the males of the species, knowing they will follow urges more readily to extremes without so much as a thought.

You didn't find that boyfriend you were after, then

[Cable87]

Gentleman...


Do not doubt for a single moment the level of understanding the ladies who work in this business have about men. They may not know everything about us on a personal level-- and they they may not even be able to really explain us or why we are the way we are-- but they truly understand us, and know what makes us 'tick' better than we could EVER know ourselves.

They have a deeper level of insight and understanding than the vast majority of people out there, at least about male sexuality and the behaviours around and about it. It's not surprising to me at all to see some of the responses from the ladies so far, particularly Violette's. No one would know better than the ladies here about the true nature of men and male sexuality, and I couldn't blame them in the slightest if they never trusted a man again in their lives outside of and/or after working in this business.

[Anna23]

Yes, my jobs surely had an impact on the way I view men. Especially the one where I worked in a factory and the men got generally paid twice as much as the ladies there for easier work. This unequality is a disgrace.

[click n pick]

Yes, my jobs surely had an impact on the way I view men. Especially the one where I worked in a factory and the men got generally paid twice as much as the ladies there for easier work. This unequality is a disgrace.

But Anna....... Is it true in mOst cases that female escorts earn more from there jobs than there male counterpart??

To quote you 'this inequality is a disgrace'
What's good fOr the goose is good for the gander MIss Anna

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