Older gent

[InsidiousCid]

You know what, let me take another tact here, just to give additional perspective on what we have so far.

Cause of course I think each individual should be given the leeway to contribute their opinion, but I'll respect that perhaps it should be done with a little more sensitivity.

.........

So, I knock on this escorts door one time. Whilst she was opening the door, before she'd actually seen me, she pokes her head around it to catch a quick look and, before I'd come into view properly, the initial expression on her face was kind of like, "another man twice to three times my age that I have to service............ wonderful!".

As in, it looked pretty grim. If I'm being completely honest it looked like the type of type of response/facial-expression she was used to wearing when opening the door to clients.

So I get inside where she clocks me fully, and it becomes obvious she's quite surprised like, I was not what she was used to, and not what she was expecting.

So she breaks out into this big smile and it's basically obvious she's like, "Oh God, what's going on here!? I'm hot for this guy!".

Listen I'm not trying to sound conceited but, it's not the first time this has happened to me.
It's pretty hard for a gal to hide that giddy sense of excitation when she's turned on.

So we get up in the room and of course she's trying to play it cool, aloof, nonchalant etc.

And this is the part that gets me to thinking, when girls are on the job, do they really WANT to meet guys they might actually be turned on by?
Older clients that don't really do anything for them, where they can just go through the motions (as well honed and convincing as those motions may be), may well be preferable for them. An easier days work, right?

So we start going through the pre-engagement details, confirming what's what and I'm getting this distinct vibe like:

"Bastard!! You think you're just going to come in here, use me for sex, then leave satisfied, hmm? Hell no! But I'll tell you what I'll do. I'll give you a service to remember........... for all the wrong reasons!".

lol

But I'm relatively okay with that cause she performs CIM and I know, provided I finish like that, no matter what, I'll be walking out of there with a smile on my face.

The mistake I made however, was letting her know this.

I can literally see the thought go through her mind, "okay, now you're DEFINITELY not getting CIM......... but I'll charge you for it anyways........ hehe" (there was a small additional fee for that as an extra).

In other words, as a guy that had come through the door and that she obviously found appealing, there was no way on Gods green earth, she was going to just allow me to have no-strings sex, and walk out of there feeling good about myself, or satisfied.

That's why I'm quite simply of the opinion, providers prefer clients that are older, cause they're just an easier days work?

cont...

[InsidiousCid]

A client that a provider might get hot for, comes in, has sex, and just leaves (as the euphemism goes, "eats, shoots and leaves"), what is it, does it make them feel used?
Devalued?
Maybe they don't need the headache of getting a little emotionally invested in a dude that likes to have sex with escorts? (which many find deplorable......... ironic, right?).

So anyways, it's become clear at that point that her intention is to royally rip me off but, there's still no denying she's feeling it, the chemistry.

So I say something a little naughty, just to turns things up a notch........

I give it: "if I put my tongue.................. inside your vagina................. would you like that?"

Response was kind of hilarious.
I could literally see her body go, "oh yasssss! Let me feel the pleasure!! Mmmmmm", clearly excited.

Whilst her mind was like, "Bastard!!".

lol

One of those, "the mind says no, but the body says GO!!" type of situations.

But it was clear that, in the end, she wasn't going to allow her body to take precedence over her mind.

........

So with all that being said, a good service being off the table, and CIM being off the table, it was ultimately time to exit, stage left.

I will comment that, in view of the situation what was clear was, despite being a well reputed escort, she was prepared to show absolutely no compunction in her willingness to royally rip me off............. had I been absent minded enough to stay.

Which of course, brings us back to this idea that, older gents are just an easier days work?
Not just in terms of the service but, perhaps for some girls it's a real headache to get a visit from guys they have actual chemistry with?
As I mentioned, feeling devalued, maybe feeling cheated themselves when such a guy "eats shoots and leaves"? (which is pretty much what an escort appointment is about, no?)

Perhaps it's simply preferable where there's no real involvement, they can just create the fantasy, go through the motions, less complications etc? Anyways, that's at least in part why I believe, although they may not find them as typically physically attractive, escorts just kind of prefer hosting more elderly gents?

[AngelsFan]

[InsidiousCid]

You mean probably the first substantive, lucid post of the thread.

"Shit posting!!".

lol

Please.

Does it not raise the point though, having browsed this discussion forum for a while, there must be a comment from service providers at least once a week complaining how her clients are so "beneath her", "should be so lucky to meet her", and basically they're not the male-model'esque material she feels she's deserving of?

Point I'm making is, you go through the door as a client who can potentially ignite a spark with your provider, it would seem to me the probability they'll be hyper-resentful is about 99 out of 100?

As I think I mentioned above, I get the feeling providers are a lot happier to service clients they're unaffected by. Older clients (whom are presumably their primary customer base), basically easy clients that they ultimately don't find attractive........ or will find a reason to not find attractive by being spiteful or underhanded or malicious........ as the above anecdote clearly illustrates.

It just seems a little ironic they have the audacity to constantly complain about their primary income stream (older gents), whilst showing very little aside from resentment, contempt and disdain for any decent dude that clearly offends them by even so much as showing up for an appointment with a prostitute in the first place.

[jeeves2023]

I’m only getting back to this thread now and it certainly sparked off a good chat. A bit more context, I’m widowed over 5 years, have dated a few times but maybe not ready for a relationship but do miss the physical fun! I’ve been on this site a while but have never plucked up the courage to make a call, though seem to be getting closer to it. I certainly don’t want to party all night but an hour or 2 exploring what I’ve missed would be most enjoyable.

[Thoreau]

I’m only getting back to this thread now and it certainly sparked off a good chat. A bit more context, I’m widowed over 5 years, have dated a few times but maybe not ready for a relationship but do miss the physical fun! I’ve been on this site a while but have never plucked up the courage to make a call, though seem to be getting closer to it. I certainly don’t want to party all night but an hour or 2 exploring what I’ve missed would be most enjoyable.

Go for it Jeeves from a pensioner!!! Wooster would also advise, because any valet worth his salt should be experienced to pass on his knowledge to himself!!!

[Moocher]

I’m only getting back to this thread now and it certainly sparked off a good chat. A bit more context, I’m widowed over 5 years, have dated a few times but maybe not ready for a relationship but do miss the physical fun! I’ve been on this site a while but have never plucked up the courage to make a call, though seem to be getting closer to it. I certainly don’t want to party all night but an hour or 2 exploring what I’ve missed would be most enjoyable.

My advice would be to choose to meet a really nice and professional independent escort , one who is very well reviewed. A difficult first booking would put you back and undermine your confidence. I have the perfect answer for you if you are in Dublin.

[jeeves2023]

I am indeed mooched if you want pm me. I’ll update on my adventures in due course.

[InsidiousCid]

Then again, that could be just your own personal experience.

If a client is concerned as to whether the escort will get all responsive ,hot and bothered, then he's likely to feel let down most of the time.

As long as she seems relaxed and content, I'll settle for that. I'm of an age where thankfully I don't have to be worried about performance.

Yeah not to sound conceited but, I'm not really concerned about whether a provider is going to get hot and bothered.

I KNOW they're gonna get hot and bothered.

It's the response to getting hot and bothered that's more so the consideration.

It can be what's known as "polarizing", kind of a "love you" or "hate you" thing.

I've come through the door sometimes and I can literally see the provider go, "OMG!! Instant horny!".

And then as per my anecdote on the previous page, some providers are like, "Instant horny, but no! No no no! .......... I hate you! Bastard!", lol.

My thinking is, they're on the job and determined to keep it about business?

I had this girl one time, she waited until I paid her to put on a g-string, comes back in the room and lays out on the bed like, "take me!!".
Admittedly I wasn't on my best that day, performance wise, so her been aroused, turned to being crazy..... etc etc. (i.e. the "I love you" turned into "I hate you")

[InsidiousCid]

Then some unfortunate cases are like, pathologically obsessed with being "in control" of their clients, showing them who's in charge.

They're the "Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde" type deals, the hypocrites, the photoshop queens.

You get that idea.

The anecdotes go on and on.



Just say the word, I'd be happy to go all day.