Oppposites Attract?

[UncleBob]

Funny you should mention that! I need Renatha to take the money shot for me, after all... isn't that what friends are for?

You are the Devil, lol ;-)

[gaze]

Guys when you look for an Escort, do you look for someone who is similar in looks to your partner or an ex or do you look for someone entirely different?

Once or twice I have been told that I remind a client of an ex or their partner (perhaps at a different stage of their life) and it can create an extra 'fondness' if you like, that perhaps may not have been there otherwise.

Do you actively look for ladies that remind you of someone you care/cared for or do you prefer to go the complete opposite and have a complete fantasy booking?

Simple answer...No.. I go for girls who can read my mind, which is why I go for repeat visits, probably more than most.

[EIFII]

I don't have partner ex partner or any such person. I just go for a lady with all the qualities valued by the superficial man

I thought he's currently banned, for another week at least - or are you being ironic?

[dob]

I thought he's currently banned, for another week at least - or are you being ironic?

A reference to Seinfeld, not big daddy...although judging from his commentary here, he is very very superficial.

[EIFII]

A reference to Seinfeld, not big daddy...although judging from his commentary here, he is very very superficial.

Ironic then. I thought so

[EIFII]

Sorry Kate we've gone off topic.
But I think that is a bizarre idea. To go and meet someone because she reminds you of someone else? Everyone is an individual, that's what makes us human...

[Briomaid]

Interesting question. Subconsciously I think we tend to go for someone similar to our partners. My partner is curvy and a few years ago I tried a body to body massage here in Dublin. When I arrived at the girls apartment she was very young and drop-dead gorgeous but I just couldn't feel comfortable with her. Why? Because she was too young I felt too old and because she was incredibly petite I felt like the Incredible Hulk. I really wanted someone more like my partner.....nearer my own age and nice and curvy. Some differences are exciting and erotic ....let's face it that's why you are experimenting in the first place. So for me it is exciting to be say with a brunette. But I think we still want some comfort in the familiar too.
Don't know if I am making any sense here

[gaze]

There has to be some sexual arousal Cant imagine going out with a girl that I did not fancy

[Curvaceous Kate]

Interesting question. Subconsciously I think we tend to go for someone similar to our partners. My partner is curvy and a few years ago I tried a body to body massage here in Dublin. When I arrived at the girls apartment she was very young and drop-dead gorgeous but I just couldn't feel comfortable with her. Why? Because she was too young I felt too old and because she was incredibly petite I felt like the Incredible Hulk. I really wanted someone more like my partner.....nearer my own age and nice and curvy. Some differences are exciting and erotic ....let's face it that's why you are experimenting in the first place. So for me it is exciting to be say with a brunette. But I think we still want some comfort in the familiar too.
Don't know if I am making any sense here

If I have you right you are saying that you favour the figure and similar age of your partner, but are varying the look of the lady? So there are some similarities, which is your 'type', but you are not looking for her twin. Would that be right?

As I see it, or at least I imagine in the main, we choose our partner, because we are attracted to them physically, but also mentally. It is the whole package that we are attracted to. Therefore why wouldn't you choose someone in the Escorting world who has similar physical attributes, but where you may have compromised with your partner (maybe she has brown hair, when you love blonde), then this is where the difference would be.

Please note I don't show my face in my adverts, so any tendency to look like a persons ex has been a surprise to the client and not done intentionally, but they do seem to have got off on it, because they didn't have the kind of sex they had with their ex, that they are having with me, so I guess it becomes a bit of a fantasy?

[Curvaceous Kate]

If I fancy her that's all that matters. That's the only blueprint I have and I'd say most guys are the same.

This is one thing I am learning. Most guys are NOT the same. It is rather intriguing. No wonder we all stumble through life in different directions, as our own life story dictates the way we think and feel and no to journeys are the same.