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    Quote Originally Posted by samlad View Post
    The truth is, in the latter months of your modship, you seldom posted and there were times when things changed and you weren't aware of the situation, so you weren't always in the loop either.

    Ooooh Sorry, but that must of hurt


    Just a serious poiint from my end, if we werent on the boards everyday, editing and deleting things that need to be, there would still be other martyrs doing the same thing just with a different reason. We dont just delete and edit for the fun of it, BOY if only I could, there wouldn't be much left in this thread LOL

    Lets face it Carlos, I've never had direct contact with you so don't know you too well, but it's a bit of a double edged sword here, 'Damned if we do,and damned if we don't' (in quotes, cause im sure someone said it earlier in the thread) We would still leave plenty to be desired if we didnt Mod properly on the boards and were always going to get those few that don't agree with anything we do, be that because they genuinly have moral's(like some I know) or because they just love to...Well to be blunt, shit stir. At the end of the day, It doesnt matter what your reasons are, we are day in and day out, dealing with your requests and dealing with issues on the boards.

    I'm sure someone has moved the suggestion box anyway after Alec was using it......Oh here it is
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    Quote Originally Posted by PeepingTom View Post
    'Damned if we do,and damned if we don't'
    There's nothing surprising there. If you make mistakes, in either direction, then people will point them out. People aren't going to post about the ones you get right. Modding is a service sector job, like any other, just worse paid.

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    All very complicated and technical indeed. I'm sure it cant be easy trying to please all of the people all of the time. In these days of lawsuits and defamation claims one has to be careful. Old Ryder here prefers to stick to the lighter side of things where more people can participate . "By the way theres a cockfight in Cavan tonight. " Keep up the good work .
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    Quote Originally Posted by El Gordo View Post
    There's nothing surprising there. If you make mistakes, in either direction, then people will point them out. People aren't going to post about the ones you get right. Modding is a service sector job, like any other, just worse paid.
    Its like most jobs I've been in, you can work your arse off and go unnoticed for a while and eventually, you will get a 'thank you thread' saying someone likes the new rules and we're doing a good job lately. Thats about it, you do something wrong and someone notices straight away and you get a shit storm arising.

    Respect is very easy to lose and very hard to gain.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ryder View Post
    All very complicated and technical indeed. I'm sure it cant be easy trying to please all of the people all of the time. In these days of lawsuits and defamation claims one has to be careful. Old Ryder here prefers to stick to the lighter side of things where more people can participate . "By the way theres a cockfight in Cavan tonight. " Keep up the good work .

    I'll let you know how hard it is once we can finally 'please all of the people all the time' LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by samlad View Post
    Rather patronising, but to answer a couple of points:

    Yes, it was necessary (in my opinion) to delete the whole thread. As it would have been so heavily edited, it would have lacked cohesion and would have left a vicious circle of questions regarding things that were deleted, with the usual suspects jumping in asking things for the sake of it just to amuse themselves.

    You're over-reacting by suggesting that the moderating is going to be responsible for 'shutting this business down'. The 'nanny' approach is our way if trying to help escorts that request our help, and if you find it ridiculous, fair enough; it still doesn't entitle everyone to know everyone elses' business.

    The truth is, in the latter months of your modship, you seldom posted and there were times when things changed and you weren't aware of the situation, so you weren't always in the loop either.

    As for posting about fake pictures, well the example referred to her was posted in the general chat section first of all. Secondly, several people were reminded to process things properly, so that this ridiculous situation wouldn't have occurred in the first place.

    If glamour models get such a 'warm welcome' in the first place, why would they bother to continue advertising in Ireland? Rather ironic suggesting that it is E-I that is damaging the business.
    In fact I don't believe that heavy moderating is going to be responsible for "shutting this business down". What I do believe is that heavy moderating and censorship of valid genuine debate of matters of importance to members/punters and escorts, will cause some members to take their opinions elsewhere and this may result a) in a reduction of serious threads and forum traffick on E-I and b) a dumbing down of the boards as people play safe and tell us what a nice morning it is outside, what they had for breakfast, put up polls about who has the nicest/roundest/smallest/biggest/tightest ass on E-I, or for the really adventureous, there is always "Drop one, keep one." The great unwashed who do not participate actively or passively on the boards will remain uninformed and blissfully ignorant.

    But since you've asked the question, I'll be happy to provide an answer. What will go a long way to "shutting this business down", will be the law to criminalise those who pay for sex, once it is introduced. Now we already have a law that makes it a criminal offence to have sex for payment with a trafficked person. No convictions as yet that I've become aware of. When the new wider law is introduced, you can be sure there will be a blitz of media coverage and police activity. The first few guys get caught and are charged and brought to court. It does'nt really matter if they get convicted or not, as the media coverage will do more than enough damage to them in terms of marriage/friends & family/maybe work and their financial situation. In terms of punishment if they are actually convicted, probably a fine, but anyone who can afford to punt can afford a fine.

    However, if it transpires that the escort whom the client had sex with was trafficked or even just claims to be trafficked, and this is believed by the court, then the punishment on conviction, as far as I am aware, is up to five years imprisonment. Happily, the other consequences are much the same as for the lesser crime, except that the chances of a divorce, loss of employment, salary, house etc. are probably that much greater. In such a situation, it is very much in a client's interest to be as near as 100% sure that when he sees an escort advertised as being independent and books her, that she is in fact 100% independent.

    Now, if the figures of the Stockholm police are in any way accurate, men who frequent escorts have dropped from 1 in 8 to 1 in 40. That is a reduction of 80% which translates into an overall 80% reduction in revenue for escorts, assuming of course that the 20% who continue punting still spend as much as they did before.......otherwise, the reduction could be even bigger. Now let's look at Ireland. I read very recently that 1 in 15 men here frequent escorts. Given the fact that prostitution is probably less socially acceptable in Ireland than it was in Sweden before they introduced their law, this probably needs to be taken with a health warning, but for the purposes of the debate, let's assume it's accurate enough. Let's also assume, a similar 80% reduction in the number of men who punt (down to 1 in 75) and the overall revenue which escorts receive when a similar law is introduced here.

    Now we need to look at what an escort could currently expect to make here in a week. Let's be generous and assume a very well reviewed, high profile independent touring escort who is prepared to work long hours and see as many clients as possible while here.......let's say €1000 per day or €7000 per week, which she gets to keep herself. A reduction of 80% would reduce that to €1400, the equivalent of one 1 hour client or two half hour clients per day. The cost side looks something like this: Flights probably somewhere between €100 and €300 depending on route and airline, accommodation somewhere between €350 and €700 depending on hotel/apartment, advertisement here €100. So without taking into account food or meals, transport within Ireland, makeup and personal care products, condoms and lube, phone calls/text messages and any incidentals, we're looking at costs in the range of €550 and €1100 for a one week tour. As I said at the outset, that would be a high profile escort and a reasonably good tour........I suspect that many would end up making a loss. So, if a lot of escorts who actually have a choice in the matter of whether to tour or actually reside here can't make a go of it here financially, what do you suspect we will be left with?

    Given the legitimate concerns that clients will have about who they visit e.g. the difference in sentencing under the two laws, and the risk of being caught by an undercover female police officer masquerading behind a new escort profile, known established independent escorts will have a distinct advantage in attracting high value clients, and the site(s) on which they chose to advertise will also survive. The other sites, which embrace a catch-all business model will probably have more escorts on them, but will also possibly attract a "dodgier" clientel, for whom a five year stretch posses no big sweat.


    As to the next part of your post that I've highlighted.....loops. I've been out of the loop for the best part of my life; in fact as an independent type of individual, I actually don't enjoy jumping through loops or hoops for others.


    Final highlighted part of the quotation. Err.....what glamour models do and where they advertise is their business.......I have no interest in the glamour business, lingerie models, page 3 models or airfix models.....all the same to me. I would imagine that many clients would however give a "warm" welcome to a beautiful glamour model advertised here and that they advertise here for the same reason as any escort........to attract as many clients and make as much money as possible. Whoes business am I supposed to be suggesting E-I is damaging?........certainly not the glamour models' business. Maybe these are separate issues which have been linked together........basically, I fail to undertand the question.

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    Firstly, it's up to the posters to decide which threads to reply to; we don't force them at gun point. Im sorry that you don't find the post intellectualy satisfying enough. We actually moderate threads that we feel get out of hand and abusive, give out personal details or certain aspects are requested to be removed by certain posters.

    As for escorts advertising, well anyone has a right to work as a sex worker if they wish too, albeit there is more competition and yes, a current recession intensifies the situation and appears to be putting the client more in control than the escort, in terms of 'I'm strapped for cash, so I want my money's worth'. You're preaching to the converted talking about escort costs, for I have made the same points myself several times in the past. You do highlight the problems of the message boards, but onsidering about 2-3% of visitors actually bother to post, it's not really that relevent in terms of scale.

    You state that you are not aware of any convictions of persons having sex with a trafficked escort, but you have highlighted the extent of trafficking you suspect goes on in Ireland. We don't make a public broadcast of it, but we do actually pass the information onto the police regularly, and it would be a lot more constructive for clients to report these issues rather than posting about them on a heavily media-observed website highlighting them. If you look at the rules of the forums (check my signature link), you will see that there is a section on the Police, indicating that we do report things and cooperate with the Gardai. The problem is, everyone wants to talk about it, but nobody's willing to actually do anything about it. I'm sure crime-lords of the sex industry would be reading these threads too, so rather than advertise things, why not report them? There has been diffusion of responsiblity as to who should report it; we actually do our bit. Clients don't want to do their bit because they are afraid of being exposed for the stigma of seeing escorts or having affairs. In this business, everyone kind of relies on the whole anonymity thing and it works both ways for escorts and clients, hence the reason we discourage witch-hunts. That's one of the risks of seeing escorts unfortunately.

    You've completely missed the point about the 'loop' thing. Somebody mentioned earlier that they take your opinions on board as an ex-moderator, and the point I was making was that you weren't really around enough to bear in mind the decisions made behind the scenes or the change of procedures. If you're a man of your own mind, I respect that, and even as a manager, I am too, as well as the other mods. It's a combination of these independent thinkers that make the decisions, and if a decision is wrong, it's wrong, and we deal with it and move on.

    The point about glamour models has been missed completely too. You're an intellegent bloke, Carlos.... the point I was making there is that there have been a number of glamour models (or whoever) coming to Ireland to work and these threads pointing fingers and claiming "she's a fake" would probably discourage a return visit. They might all be the same to you, but for other people, seeing a glamour model, porn actress or lingerie model might be a thrill, so don't knock it.

    There are concerns that the sex industry will become illegal, and personally, I think it will force it underground. These debates have been had before, several times recently, so I've missing your point about censoring real issues.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carlos marvado View Post
    in fact i don't believe that heavy moderating is going to be responsible for "shutting this business down". What i do believe is that heavy moderating and censorship of valid genuine debate of matters of importance to members/punters and escorts, will cause some members to take their opinions elsewhere and this may result a) in a reduction of serious threads and forum traffick on e-i and b) a dumbing down of the boards as people play safe and tell us what a nice morning it is outside, what they had for breakfast, put up polls about who has the nicest/roundest/smallest/biggest/tightest ass on e-i, or for the really adventureous, there is always "drop one, keep one." the great unwashed who do not participate actively or passively on the boards will remain uninformed and blissfully ignorant.

    But since you've asked the question, i'll be happy to provide an answer. What will go a long way to "shutting this business down", will be the law to criminalise those who pay for sex, once it is introduced. Now we already have a law that makes it a criminal offence to have sex for payment with a trafficked person. No convictions as yet that i've become aware of. When the new wider law is introduced, you can be sure there will be a blitz of media coverage and police activity. The first few guys get caught and are charged and brought to court. It does'nt really matter if they get convicted or not, as the media coverage will do more than enough damage to them in terms of marriage/friends & family/maybe work and their financial situation. In terms of punishment if they are actually convicted, probably a fine, but anyone who can afford to punt can afford a fine.

    However, if it transpires that the escort whom the client had sex with was trafficked or even just claims to be trafficked, and this is believed by the court, then the punishment on conviction, as far as i am aware, is up to five years imprisonment. Happily, the other consequences are much the same as for the lesser crime, except that the chances of a divorce, loss of employment, salary, house etc. Are probably that much greater. In such a situation, it is very much in a client's interest to be as near as 100% sure that when he sees an escort advertised as being independent and books her, that she is in fact 100% independent.

    Now, if the figures of the stockholm police are in any way accurate, men who frequent escorts have dropped from 1 in 8 to 1 in 40. That is a reduction of 80% which translates into an overall 80% reduction in revenue for escorts, assuming of course that the 20% who continue punting still spend as much as they did before.......otherwise, the reduction could be even bigger. Now let's look at ireland. I read very recently that 1 in 15 men here frequent escorts. Given the fact that prostitution is probably less socially acceptable in ireland than it was in sweden before they introduced their law, this probably needs to be taken with a health warning, but for the purposes of the debate, let's assume it's accurate enough. Let's also assume, a similar 80% reduction in the number of men who punt (down to 1 in 75) and the overall revenue which escorts receive when a similar law is introduced here.

    Now we need to look at what an escort could currently expect to make here in a week. Let's be generous and assume a very well reviewed, high profile independent touring escort who is prepared to work long hours and see as many clients as possible while here.......let's say €1000 per day or €7000 per week, which she gets to keep herself. A reduction of 80% would reduce that to €1400, the equivalent of one 1 hour client or two half hour clients per day. The cost side looks something like this: Flights probably somewhere between €100 and €300 depending on route and airline, accommodation somewhere between €350 and €700 depending on hotel/apartment, advertisement here €100. So without taking into account food or meals, transport within ireland, makeup and personal care products, condoms and lube, phone calls/text messages and any incidentals, we're looking at costs in the range of €550 and €1100 for a one week tour. As i said at the outset, that would be a high profile escort and a reasonably good tour........i suspect that many would end up making a loss. So, if a lot of escorts who actually have a choice in the matter of whether to tour or actually reside here can't make a go of it here financially, what do you suspect we will be left with?

    Given the legitimate concerns that clients will have about who they visit e.g. The difference in sentencing under the two laws, and the risk of being caught by an undercover female police officer masquerading behind a new escort profile, known established independent escorts will have a distinct advantage in attracting high value clients, and the site(s) on which they chose to advertise will also survive. The other sites, which embrace a catch-all business model will probably have more escorts on them, but will also possibly attract a "dodgier" clientel, for whom a five year stretch posses no big sweat.


    As to the next part of your post that i've highlighted.....loops. I've been out of the loop for the best part of my life; in fact as an independent type of individual, i actually don't enjoy jumping through loops or hoops for others.


    Final highlighted part of the quotation. Err.....what glamour models do and where they advertise is their business.......i have no interest in the glamour business, lingerie models, page 3 models or airfix models.....all the same to me. I would imagine that many clients would however give a "warm" welcome to a beautiful glamour model advertised here and that they advertise here for the same reason as any escort........to attract as many clients and make as much money as possible. Whoes business am i supposed to be suggesting e-i is damaging?........certainly not the glamour models' business. Maybe these are separate issues which have been linked together........basically, i fail to undertand the question.


    ouch! That hurt Carlos.
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    Can I just make a quick point here. Threads do not dissapear for no reason. There was either a rule broken or information was posted that would be in the best interests to some people not to be posted (personal escort/client info etc)
    Carlos you know that any 'intellectual' threads are allowed on these boards provided that they stick to the rules of the boards. The mods/managers have no problem with debates and opinons being offered as long as they fall within specific parameters of the forum rules. Mind numbing threads like D1K1 etc are there for people who want to use them. They can infact be great for new members even to take part in a lighthearted game or so to meet other members. This is usually the safest thread to start off on as there is no harsh posting in that forum.

    Now getting back on track. You knowhow things operate out of public knowledge and you also should know that any posts edited /closed deleted or what have you is not done out of malice or anything other than getting the job done with as little disruption to the boards as possible.

    Please , yourself and everybody feel free to have intellectual debates and as long as they fall within the guidelines set down then they will be allowed to remain
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    Now lets get back to what this forum is meant to be
    Namely sexual depravity

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