Treat Her With Respect

[MrTony]

I have to put pen to paper on this thread I'm raising ....Why are there so many reviews that say " Lads , treat her with respect ". Is this just common decent day to day normal way to conduct oneself. And then it's usually followed by and you will get it back in spades .
My opinion us we treat everyone with respect and expect respect ..it shouldn't be a transaction.
What defines respect ? If your escort doesn't have a favourite that you want or like to do don't visit as it's disrespectful to show up and be demanding and make your lady uneasy .
Some escorts may like their client to do things to them that they find pleasurable or submissive and that's respectful as its consentual, others may find it degrading or hurtful but it's not to say one is respectful and the other is not .
But I don't think we need to broadcast it in our reviews to treat a lady with respect and you'll get loads back .
Just be yourself and see what happens .It's a journey not a regime.
Rant Over..thanks for listening

[TommyH123]

right up there with:

"We made love"

and

"I think she enjoyed it as much as me"

[Irelandbeautyyy]

right up there with:

"We made love"

and

"I think she enjoyed it as much as me"

Iam not saying it from my view. But maybe i can reply from view of clients who use words like “making love” with escorts. I wouldn’t be so bad about it. Actually i heard it many times in person. There was also always something like i don’t want to sound stupid but it feels so real with you like iam with my girlfried. It’s not a fact but it’s their feeling, emotion in that moment like it feels like making love. In the end i take it like a compliment as i gave them a feeling they are loved for a while.

Everyone is so different. Sometimes it’s not neccassry to try be always funny.

[JennyIrish]

Iam not saying it from my view. But maybe i can reply from view of clients who use words like “making love” with escorts. I wouldn’t be so bad about it. Actually i heard it many times in person. There was also always something like i don’t want to sound stupid but it feels so real with you like iam with my girlfried. It’s not a fact but it’s their feeling, emotion in that moment like it feels like making love. In the end i take it like a compliment as i gave them a feeling they are loved for a while.

Everyone is so different. Sometimes it’s not neccassry to try be always funny.

That's why you are elite , people might say that this is easy money but it takes skills to provide a true intimate experience and make the guest feel craved and wanted.

This might sound crazy to some but I find it far easier to provide a kinky PSE than a loving GFE because I associate that type of slow, loving intimacy with my favourite or my lover!

[Forceuser]

Treat her with respect

right up there with:

"We made love"

and

"I think she enjoyed it as much as me"

i'm going to use all these in all my reviews from now on
just to annoy people

[Palatine]

i'm going to use all these in all my reviews from now on
just to annoy people

You'll be smiling for the rest of the day.

[Palatine]

I have to put pen to paper on this thread I'm raising ....Why are there so many reviews that say " Lads , treat her with respect ". Is this just common decent day to day normal way to conduct oneself. And then it's usually followed by and you will get it back in spades .
My opinion us we treat everyone with respect and expect respect ..it shouldn't be a transaction.
What defines respect ? If your escort doesn't have a favourite that you want or like to do don't visit as it's disrespectful to show up and be demanding and make your lady uneasy .
Some escorts may like their client to do things to them that they find pleasurable or submissive and that's respectful as its consentual, others may find it degrading or hurtful but it's not to say one is respectful and the other is not .
But I don't think we need to broadcast it in our reviews to treat a lady with respect and you'll get loads back .
Just be yourself and see what happens .It's a journey not a regime.
Rant Over..thanks for listening

Self-justification is a psychological mechanism that helps individuals preserve their self-image and protect their ego. People naturally tend to rationalise their thoughts, behaviours, and actions to maintain a positive view of themselves.

"Treat her with respect" sends the message that "I'm a good guy, I respected this lady", and maybe for some guys it scratches an itchy guilt that they paid someone, who would not do it otherwise, to have sex with them.

The "and she'll give it back in spades" part just makes the whole sentence sound less controlling, jealous or pimpy than "Lads, treat her with respect".

[PhilPhilPhil]

It is redundant if we assume everyone deserves respect and we all try to show respect at all times.
Therefore someone writing it down nearly suggests that they don't respect all escorts, just certain ones who tick certain boxes, which could be a massive red flag.

But that's reading too much into it, it's just one of those empty sayings as mentioned above it's to make them feel good or seem like good guys, or it's just filler in a review - it's the same as people who say ''honestly'' every few sentences. Are we to consider everything they say 'dishonest' if they forget to add this caveat? Both are unnecessary.

As for ''I think she enjoyed it as much as me'' it always makes me laugh - or any of the variants, ''I could tell she had a great time'' is another, always reminds me of what someone else from here joked ''I nearly enjoyed it as much as she did''. There's a tremendous amount of self-delusion at play there, but sure it's a fantasy situation after all, the fantasy sometimes carries on into the review.

[philipkntz]

When I see that in a review, I tent to avoid. Not that I'm disrespectful, but I've learned that it tends to be associated with poor service

[Dieve]

Is it part of the "respect" when the text of the review is perfect, but many stars are missing? What's the psychology there?