Originally Posted by
AngelsFan
There is a culture within the black community of the young men disregarding their responsibilities when they get a young black woman pregnant, and leaving her for another woman. And to an extent the culture is supported by young black women boasting of stealing yo' man and where yo' man at. It might not be politically correct to say this, but it is true.
Comedians such as Chris Rock and Dave Chapelle and others have whole routines based on this type of prevalent behaviour.
It depends what type of assistance you are advocating. Materially it is more advantageous at the moment for the single Mother to claim welfare. You could argue that this encourages the culture of households with no father figure.
Personal accountability and responsibility is about sticking around and help raising your child so that at 14 years of age he doesn't join a gang and become a gang banger because he wants to help his mother put food on the table and buy nice clothes for himself.
Drug dealers and gang bangers raising kids instead of the kids fathers. Teaching them how to step across each other to climb the drug trade ladder.
If the black community don't begin to treat each other with respect, their women, their children, then the words of BLM seem hollow when other communities hear them.
Of course this isn't every black family, but it is the pervading culture within the community. Defunding the police won't change that.
This is in no way hate speech or racist. It's a realistic look at one of the big social problems in African American communities.
I do realise the irony of my point on this an escort website. I am a single guy if that makes any difference.
It has nothing to do with the colour of their skin nor their biology.
They basically grow up in a system that is rigged against them. It is sociological. Even noam chomskey said this.
You give african americans a chance and they would achieve much more. But like i say, the game is rigged against them.
"The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation" - Henry David Thoreau.