Quote Originally Posted by fishermansoul View Post
" I need someone to show me how to treat a lady in the bedroom, someone to empathise and fluent/near fluent in English."

The thing about this er... hobby is that it is hit and miss. Choose someone who is a sure thing with lots of reviews. There is a lot of "bait and switch" and fake reviews.
If having sex with someone for the "first time" is a thing with you then maybe visiting an escort will help you get over that hang up.
However, you won't really learn how to "treat a lady in the bedroom" because most escorts simply put up with the client and fake whatever they want.
Also, it is rare to get actual empathy in such a short meeting.

That said I have been with some superb ladies and learned a lot with them.
As for anal, I wouldn't try that first time. In my experience relatively few women actually enjoy it.
Thanks for your feedback. I have a booking I place for tomorrow. I just hope my nerves don't get the better of me 😩