If you knew an escort was dating a client....

[Stephanie]

Well said Miss Stephanie...


As for the original topic of the thread, it depends...

So good to see you !!

How've you been ?!

How's it hanging over-a-yonder ?! xxx

[Cable87]

So good to see you !!

How've you been ?!

How's it hanging over-a-yonder ?! xxx

Hello Miss Stephanie...

Things could be better here, I'm not particularly thrilled with my current circumstances, but hopefully things will start to go better soon.

But I'm quite sure I would be feeling on top of the world, if only I could have some quality time with you...

[Kaz]

Who really cares? You pay for a fun time.

[The D Man]

... would this put you off seeing her?

For example, If I knew Wacker was dating Irish Leigh, it certainly wouldn't make any difference to me.

Would it for you?

No it wouldn't make any difference for me. It's her personal private life. Depending on who the lady was he would be a lucky bastard

[mexicanpete]

... would this put you off seeing her?

For example, If I knew Wacker was dating Irish Leigh, it certainly wouldn't make any difference to me.

Would it for you?

I think that you betray yourself a little here. If this genuinely made no difference to you, why would it occur to you to raise the issue????
Escorts date clients all the time and it is not an issue. However, I suspect that the real question is; if you know that a fellow poster is getting sex for free, would you still be happy to pay the full price for it? The answer is that it would make no difference because there is not the slightest chance that he is getting sex for free.
In a mis-spent life, I have dated dozens of escorts, lived with quite a few and even been married and the one thing that has never happened is having sex for free. I can tell you from a vast amount of experience that the time that a girl says that you do not need to pay her is the point that the relationship starts to go downhill and get seriously expensive. One thing that escorts never seem to lose is the relationship between money and sex. I am convinced that they have a little cash register inserted in their brains. It does not matter how much they might enjoy themselves, there is always a little slate being marked. Typically, you might have sex five or six times over a couple of weeks and then find that the girl really needs your help as she is short €2k for the rent. In their little mental calculator the hourly rate goes up as a girlfriend, goes higher as a live-in girlfriend and hits the roof as a wife
My strongest and best advice is that when an escort suggests that you do not need to pay her, insist on paying as you do not want to feel that you are taking advantage of her.
I know that I am going to be castigated by the escorts for saying this but it is the truth of the matter

[nonpareil]

didnt read all of your post but the bit i read i thought was nonsense. you lost me at "dated dozens of escorts". perhaps you meant "trafficked dozens of escorts"??????????

Soontobebanneduser? ???????????

[macdchef]

True word babe

[jakelanders]

Soontobebanneduser? ???????????

Bitterness has indeed an ugly soul

[sixfourblond]

I think that you betray yourself a little here. If this genuinely made no difference to you, why would it occur to you to raise the issue????
Escorts date clients all the time and it is not an issue. However, I suspect that the real question is; if you know that a fellow poster is getting sex for free, would you still be happy to pay the full price for it? The answer is that it would make no difference because there is not the slightest chance that he is getting sex for free.
In a mis-spent life, I have dated dozens of escorts, lived with quite a few and even been married and the one thing that has never happened is having sex for free. I can tell you from a vast amount of experience that the time that a girl says that you do not need to pay her is the point that the relationship starts to go downhill and get seriously expensive. One thing that escorts never seem to lose is the relationship between money and sex. I am convinced that they have a little cash register inserted in their brains. It does not matter how much they might enjoy themselves, there is always a little slate being marked. Typically, you might have sex five or six times over a couple of weeks and then find that the girl really needs your help as she is short €2k for the rent. In their little mental calculator the hourly rate goes up as a girlfriend, goes higher as a live-in girlfriend and hits the roof as a wife
My strongest and best advice is that when an escort suggests that you do not need to pay her, insist on paying as you do not want to feel that you are taking advantage of her.
I know that I am going to be castigated by the escorts for saying this but it is the truth of the matter

Of course it is a generalisation...
But uncannily close to my own experience...

[nonpareil]

Bitterness has indeed an ugly soul

So does lack of humour.