Escorts and Relationships

[conanthegreat]

Been single a long while and I was just wondering is it because of escorts like am I taking the easy option all the time , like obviously your nice to escorts and they are to you but in the real world being nice just gets you walked on and laughed at as girls like guys who are dickheads so do escorts make you soft when it comes to meeting women in the real world like you hear what you want to hear with an escort but in the real world girls can really crush your ego which is hard to recover

[TonyStark]

In a way part of what you say makes sense but I don't see it as the easy option, just need a release that isn't self inflicted.

I'm not sure if it's a confidence issue or just can't be arsed with girls in the "real world" as like you I have experienced girls that are complete bitches and have noticed that most of the girls I'm attracted to tend to go with guys that treat them like shite.

Sometimes I think I need a girl to hit me over the head with a hammer to show that she's interested as I just don't see the signs, example being a girl at the gym who's smiled a few times and I've caught her looking few times too but I'm fucked if she's just being friendly or geniunely interested.

Also part of me, esp after a meeting, thinks I have this really guilty look like people know what I've been up to even though I'm single and can have sex with whomever I want, obviously consensual.

So yeah, just a release although there are some escorts I've met that I genuinely wish I had met under different circumstances but I guess that's the nature of this hobby and we have to always remember what it is we are doing.

[celticden]

In a way part of what you say makes sense but I don't see it as the easy option, just need a release that isn't self inflicted.

I'm not sure if it's a confidence issue or just can't be arsed with girls in the "real world" as like you I have experienced girls that are complete bitches and have noticed that most of the girls I'm attracted to tend to go with guys that treat them like shite.

Sometimes I think I need a girl to hit me over the head with a hammer to show that she's interested as I just don't see the signs, example being a girl at the gym who's smiled a few times and I've caught her looking few times too but I'm fucked if she's just being friendly or geniunely interested.

Also part of me, esp after a meeting, thinks I have this really guilty look like people know what I've been up to even though I'm single and can have sex with whomever I want, obviously consensual.

So yeah, just a release although there are some escorts I've met that I genuinely wish I had met under different circumstances but I guess that's the nature of this hobby and we have to always remember what it is we are doing.

the same thing with a girl at my gym but she was friendly and smiled alot at me and we talked a bit at the water cooler but now shes kind of cold and theres no eye contact anymore in my head i'm like "well fuck you too then " haha don't understand it but i'd have no idea how to pick up a girl at the gym anyway

[TonyStark]

the same thing with a girl at my gym but she was friendly and smiled alot at me and we talked a bit at the water cooler but now shes kind of cold and theres no eye contact anymore in my head i'm like "well fuck you too then " haha don't understand it but i'd have no idea how to pick up a girl at the gym anyway

Yip I get that, days where I'm getting the eye contact, then other days getting fuck all signs and I'm like whatever lol and yip I have no idea how to approach girls in the gm either lol

[celticden]

Yip I get that, days where I'm getting the eye contact, then other days getting fuck all signs and I'm like whatever lol and yip I have no idea how to approach girls in the gm either lol

its hard to think of something on the spot with also trying not to bore the shit out of them or that your not like hitting on them like all the other guys its tough haha

[name is buck]

the same thing with a girl at my gym but she was friendly and smiled alot at me and we talked a bit at the water cooler but now shes kind of cold and theres no eye contact anymore in my head i'm like "well fuck you too then " haha don't understand it but i'd have no idea how to pick up a girl at the gym anyway

how to pick up a girl at the gym is easy.

first wrap your arms around her just below the ass.

then use your legs to do the lifting NOT your back.

lift streat upwards.

see easy as that.

[libra]

Nice guys always come last; girls like bad guys;

[conanthegreat]

Nice guys always come last; girls like bad guys;

i have tried to be a dickhead and cocky and i have read the book the game but its so hard to completely change your personality christ acting is hard work if you don't get the balance right and come off too much of a dickhead its a disasters cus if you fight fire with fire you get burned haha, nice guys shit doesn't cut it though I really need to change that

[MayaX]

Well the girls don't know to respect and appreciate the lovely Irish guys ..... And them think are the Queens and can do some stupid things and offend and broke the heart ....from my opinion if I didn't been an escort for sure i was falling in love with an Irish guy and treat him like is deserve ..... kisses

[conanthegreat]

Well the girls don't know to respect and appreciate the lovely Irish guys ..... And them think are the Queens and can do some stupid things and offend and broke the heart ....from my opinion if I didn't been an escort for sure i was falling in love with an Irish guy and treat him like is deserve ..... kisses

ah come on now maya don't be pissing on us and tell us its raining hahaha