Originally Posted by
conanthegreat
Been single a long while and I was just wondering is it because of escorts like am I taking the easy option all the time
, like obviously your nice to escorts and they are to you but in the real world being nice just gets you walked on and laughed at as girls like guys who are dickheads so do escorts make you soft when it comes to meeting women in the real world like you hear what you want to hear with an escort but in the real world girls can really crush your ego which is hard to recover
I think like any situation, you have to decide what is best for you as a person. For me, the upside of visiting an escort, aside from the obvious, is the confidence it gives me in other situations. I've never been able to approach or chat up women and after a long, sex-free marriage, my sexual skills were pretty limited too. Visiting escorts gives me confidence socially, as we can talk freely without fear of rejection on my part, and of course, no-one is going to help you brush up your sexual skills better than an experienced escort.
So you could look on your escort visits as being a kind of training ground for when you do embark on the dating scene.
I do take your point about nice guys often getting walked on, but it isn't always like that, particularly as you get older. A lot of women appreciate a nice guy who won't treat them like dirt and if he has picked up a few bedroom skills along the way, all the better.
2014 in Northern Ireland:
Number of reported attacks on sex workers 70
Number of sex trafficking cases ZERO