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    Question What do you think ladies.

    Ok girls you have met the man of your dreams and you have settled down and had kids. All is wonderful in paradise.
    But here's the thing, you have had the experience of meeting loads of married men in your previous work and listened to all their tales. Now that life has taken over as it always does will you worry your man may do the same or do you realise that sex is a very important part of a relationship. Would you even allow him visit escorts as you know what it entails if you are not into it as much. The key factor I think are kids. When we have them they dominate all our free time and kill passion pretty quick. It's takes a great team to work through all this shit and still keep the sparks in the bedroom.
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    Quote Originally Posted by john connor View Post
    Ok girls you have met the man of your dreams and you have settled down and had kids. All is wonderful in paradise.
    But here's the thing, you have had the experience of meeting loads of married men in your previous work and listened to all their tales. Now that life has taken over as it always does will you worry your man may do the same or do you realise that sex is a very important part of a relationship. Would you even allow him visit escorts as you know what it entails if you are not into it as much. The key factor I think are kids. When we have them they dominate all our free time and kill passion pretty quick. It's takes a great team to work through all this shit and still keep the sparks in the bedroom.
    Honestly? I would hope that I know him well enough to know all his kinks and his ways. I would hope that we were communicating with each other and able to make compromises, so that we both felt fulfilled by the relationship and I would likely steer away from settling down with a 'variety' man, as this is not something you can stop being, just because you fall in love. Armed with that knowledge, I would hope that I could satisfy his needs, however things do change and if for whatever reason I completely lost my sex drive, I would not expect him to live the rest of his life without sexual fulfillment and I would not stop him from seeing Escorts, but I would want him to be careful with who he was seeing and make sure they get regular STD tests and not offer bareback services.

    If we were still having great sex and he decided to see Escorts, then I'm afraid I would not be happy, as I would then start using condoms with him, as I can not trust everyone and not knowing who he is seeing, then it is too big a risk. It could also spoil our relationship, so could break us up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    Honestly? I would hope that I know him well enough to know all his kinks and his ways. I would hope that we were communicating with each other and able to make compromises, so that we both felt fulfilled by the relationship and I would likely steer away from settling down with a 'variety' man, as this is not something you can stop being, just because you fall in love. Armed with that knowledge, I would hope that I could satisfy his needs, however things do change and if for whatever reason I completely lost my sex drive, I would not expect him to live the rest of his life without sexual fulfillment and I would not stop him from seeing Escorts, but I would want him to be careful with who he was seeing and make sure they get regular STD tests and not offer bareback services.

    If we were still having great sex and he decided to see Escorts, then I'm afraid I would not be happy, as I would then start using condoms with him, as I can not trust everyone and not knowing who he is seeing, then it is too big a risk. It could also spoil our relationship, so could break us up.
    How is a client going to ensure that ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Baxter View Post
    How is a client going to ensure that ?
    I keep record of the ones I have on my phone. Some Escorts have certificates. If you bother to get them done, it is no bother to keep a record of it. I don't just get tested for my own benefit, I get them done to reassure my clients that I am a responsible person and believe it or not, I spent some of my time over the xmas break going to a clinic and having tests gone. As expected I got the all clear, but at least with that saved on my phone, I can back up my claims to have regular checks.
    Last edited by CurvaceousKate; 09-01-14 at 00:32.

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