ok the big one

[funlover12]

i have many gay friends im truly a fag hag,

to say trauma the main reason do you say that suggesting abuse?

most gay men i know, knew they where different as children, nd most would not choose to be gay for an easier life
most tryed to be straight, had girlfriends but knew it wasnt right

in the case of ts, postmortums on the brains have proved as in physical proof that part of the brain resembles more female than male, homosexuailty is in the animal kingdom, take sheep most rams will have gay sex, now one could argue its a dominence/rape thing, bust i even seen other cows mounting other cows, when there in season...

now to say if im raped by a woman i will inturn become lesbian is as foolish as the statement is outlandish, ive met more abused straight people,
now the abuse they have is mental, been feel there a freak, that there dirty this is wrong this the abuse most will get
the struggle to come to terms with there different nd the having to deal with opinions of everyone is abuse, this did not turn them gay, my neighbour since he was two we all know he gay he has not come out yet but id imagine collage will be his time

there numerous eldery bachelors who spent lifes in solitude instead of happiness because they felt wrong nd dirty because there sexual feelings where not to women, and that because of society small mindness nd associating gay with something bad or something went wrong in there lifes,

considering the shit they get nd everyone making assumptions as to what happened they became a homosexual, do you honestly thing they would choose this?

everyone has different sexual attractions, not every man will find every woman desirable some will have strong perfences for tall short thin fat red head blonde etc etc etc etc

its a shame society small mindness causes the pain of so many who like everyone deserve to be happy in life

the problem with science is its only as good as the next person to suggest and prove something else. the brain is a living organism always changing and when trauma is introduced to it recovery is possible depending on the individual but they have no way to know if their brains psysically develloped that way through life or they were born with it, and until time travel is invented to rewind a gay persons life to look at any structural changes that have happened since birth its impossible to know and even then will never answer anything one way or the other. just like disease its not a desired part of natural selection, for obv reasons. if everyone gay no more human race.

[kudos]

I disagree. It's actually one of the few topics worth discussing that I have seen on here . . . ever! To say that "it's none of my business what people do in their personal lives" is the ultimate cop-out. Do you not care if people torture animals? . . . beat up their grandparents? . . . spend all the housekeeping money on alcohol or gambling? . . . hack into your bank-account? . . . plan to assassinate Louis Walsh?

What's the point of this thread, is it just to troll? I have no opinion on the subject, frankly . If previous threads are to go by, I hope this thread gets locked sooner rather than later

[funlover12]

I disagree. It's actually one of the few topics worth discussing that I have seen on here . . . ever!

I thought the same so thats why I started it

[kudos]

Doh . . . probably from whoever/whatever figured out how to create babies.

A more important question is ..... Where does heterosexuality come from? When do people decide they want to be with the opposite sex????

Trauma? Nature? Nurture?

[NoBrain2]

I disagree. It's actually one of the few topics worth discussing that I have seen on here . . . ever! To say that "it's none of my business what people do in their personal lives" is the ultimate cop-out. Do you not care if people torture animals? . . . beat up their grandparents? . . . spend all the housekeeping money on alcohol or gambling? . . . hack into your bank-account? . . . plan to assassinate Louis Walsh?

So how exactly does it affect you? Are you gay or bisexual? How does talking about a group of people to which you have no connection benefit you?

[Deven]

Can you prove it?..or is just what you believe

Can you prove its because of trauma? What about bi people? Why would you buy thats its because of a trauma then it been just who they are.

[funlover12]

So how exactly does it affect you? Are you gay or bisexual? How does talking about a group of people to which you have no connection benefit you?

you need to look up what discussion means, it not about definate answers, only two things are certain in modern life, death and taxes

[Deven]

but ironically its people with that mindset are the ones holding something against them. Its an illness plain and simple like heart disease or depression, and just like those things is possible to be overcome

Is this a troll post, an illness like heart disease or depression??? Let me ask you, were you born a complete asshole or did some trauma make you into one?

[funlover12]

Can you prove its because of trauma? What about bi people? Why would you buy thats its because of a trauma then it been just who they are.

everyone under the right circumstances is bi whether they admit it or not. ever have a dog try hump your leg? whys that u think, cause his biology is screaming reproduce reproduce! its a bit like throw mud, ride everything till something sticks. if there was no experimentation there would be no life. period. ever.

[funlover12]

Is this a troll post, an illness like heart disease or depression??? Let me ask you, were you born a complete asshole or did some trauma make you into one?

no but I developed a mind capable of critical thinking. unlike some, if your intellect cant handle something go and play with your stickle bricks