Spanking

[samlad]

I do like a little bit of light spanking when it comes to getting jiggy with it (giving more than receiving), but some people like to go all out and really redden those arse cheeks. I was just reading the latest from our E-I blog (click here) and some people go as far as to use a safe word!

So who likes to take spanking to the highest levels? Does spanking do anything for you?

[Stella]

I do like a little bit of light spanking when it comes to getting jiggy with it (giving more than receiving), but some people like to go all out and really redden those arse cheeks. I was just reading the latest from our E-I blog (click here) and some people go as far as to use a safe word!

So who likes to take spanking to the highest levels? Does spanking do anything for you?

Just mentioned HIM the other day but not sure if he can be that dominant over me... so defo do something for me

[Deven]

I do like a little bit of light spanking when it comes to getting jiggy with it (giving more than receiving), but some people like to go all out and really redden those arse cheeks. I was just reading the latest from our E-I blog (click here) and some people go as far as to use a safe word!

So who likes to take spanking to the highest levels? Does spanking do anything for you?

Dont have time to read it but thanks for the 'helpful' pictures

[name is buck]

I do like a little bit of light spanking when it comes to getting jiggy with it (giving more than receiving), but some people like to go all out and really redden those arse cheeks. I was just reading the latest from our E-I blog (click here) and some people go as far as to use a safe word!

So who likes to take spanking to the highest levels? Does spanking do anything for you?

as if I have a choice sam the ladys slap me around the place and I do be fighting for my life. let me tell you i am only trying to keep the city safe.

it is not all fun and games beening a superhero.

one lady even with off and bought a lather strap for the second time i called around she got in 3 good WOLLOPS befor i could get the wepion off her and had to stand up on my trusted steed all the way home.

[Cindy Forever]

Spanking?giving or receiving its a big turn off...

[corklad39]

my 1st EI bet , the escort, i left her ass as red a rudolf's nose.

don't she realised how bad it was till she had a shower

havent really left one that bad since that 1st bet.

[funlover12]

interesting article, and there was me thinking it was a sadist thing, but from reading that its not about pain its actually bad for it to 'hurt' it also makes sense how it becomes a pleasure when done likevthe article suggests as you are anchoring the feeling of 'pain' with pleasure and so are rewiring your brain. very interesting, like I said I just thought it was about full on pain and enjoying it, but now can see its about a transfer of pain to pleasure. interesting they not just mad afterall. a bit like anal sex in ways

[Hardtoplease]

Very much my thing - when I meet a lady who is into it.
Over the years, I have been lucky enough to meet many ladies who actively enjoy it.

For me, light spanking by hand does not belong in the BDSM category.
I see it as an integral part of an overall massage - where as the massage progresses, a little light spanking is introduced and then alternated with more massage. It is all about increasing the blood supply to the buttocks and connected areas.

Spanking by hand allows one to have a "feel" for how to increase the intensity - when will differ enormously from lady to lady.
Use of paddles, whips etc., is a completely different ball game - it always seems to me that, these smack of some form of dominance. More importantly, I fail to see how one could accurately guage when and to what level one can increase the intensity if one is using anything other one's hand.

Also for the person applying the spanking (by hand), there is the added pleasure of the subtle change in "feel" in the texture of the spanked buttock.

When the lady eventually turns around, the contrast between cold sheets and warmed cheeks provides an added feeling of active welcome for further ministrations of the oral variety.

Without question, in my particular experience, the ladies who have "enjoyed" themselves the most have been those who have enjoyed being spanked as an integral part of of being massaged.

Like everything else, it can only occur where there a relaxed atmosphere and complete trust. Also, it is not something that could happen in a 30 minute booking, unless both parties knew each other extremely well - and, even then, it needs an open-ended time element for the proper degree of relaxation (not to mention, recovery time!!!!!!!!!!!!).

[Curious k]

Personally I've never been spanked and I don't intend on trying it in the future. I did spank a girl (at her request) I was in a relationship with. Spanking while being a physical act is very much designed to appeal to a woman's emotions. I never felt comfortable performing this. Don't get me wrong, I like kinky stuff. But, spanking is just to weird. And in fairness my 'friend' that liked a spanking had some messed up Daddy issues which I think brought this spanking fetish on.

Nothing like wanting her father! Just she never felt good enough and wanted to be spanked and stuff. As I said it's weird.

[Bambam1]

i have spanked a few mesel while doing doggy,quite enjoyable