Unsure about my sexuality?

[IndigoBlue]

Hi, I'm a 18 years old and recently had my first experience with an escort.
The reason I went to see the escort was because I think I might be gay. I went soft in her, but I'm not sure if that was the nerves or the lack of attraction. It wasn't the first time I had sex but it was the first time I had sex with a girl.
Do you think I should play around more with girls sexually or am I definitely gay?
I honestly enjoyed the cuddling and the time spent, though.

[justmeagain]

hey man. . . No panic . . . .nerves happen to every man regardless of his sexual preferences. . . You have a journey to go on . . . Do not worry where it takes you but always play safe and enjoy within your comfort zone
it is your deeds in life that will define you. . . Not your sexuality
best of luck

[funlover12]

the great thing about escorts is that its all done in secrecy, so play have fun and explore without being judged or having to answer to anyone about it so relax and if you want to mind scrub later so be it, like I say no one will know so in ways you personally look at it like a fantasy that never happened and tell yourself it just happened....in your head

[Hagane00]

Hi, I'm a 18 years old and recently had my first experience with an escort.
The reason I went to see the escort was because I think I might be gay. I went soft in her, but I'm not sure if that was the nerves or the lack of attraction. It wasn't the first time I had sex but it was the first time I had sex with a girl.
Do you think I should play around more with girls sexually or am I definitely gay?
I honestly enjoyed the cuddling and the time spent, though.

Hey Indigo, dont get too upset over this, when i was younger i was very unsure about my sexuality, still only 80% im straight
If you think nerves may have been the issue, for next time, choose a lady with a board profile and chat with her for a couple of days before you meet with her, it has made me feel a lot more confident.
When you finally are sure whether you are straight, gay, bi or whatever, be proud of who you are, and anyone who tries to put you down can go fuck themselves!
All the best

[zoozoozoo]

Hi, I'm a 18 years old and recently had my first experience with an escort.
The reason I went to see the escort was because I think I might be gay. I went soft in her, but I'm not sure if that was the nerves or the lack of attraction. It wasn't the first time I had sex but it was the first time I had sex with a girl.
Do you think I should play around more with girls sexually or am I definitely gay?
I honestly enjoyed the cuddling and the time spent, though.

The most important thing is to enjoy the company of the person you are with and in your case that seems to have been good ,as has already been said gay,straight,Bi they are only labels ,relax and take your time and be happy within yourself

[Bambam1]

i went soft on a girl once not an escort,very embarrassed it shrunk into nothing lol nature will take its course man dont panic

[IndigoBlue]

Thanks a million guys, you'd get better advice here than you would on personal support forums , can you recommend any escort that would make me feel a bit more at ease? Ones that I can get to know a little or have a little bit of a laugh with before anything happens?

[zoozoozoo]

Thanks a million guys, you'd get better advice here than you would on personal support forums , can you recommend any escort that would make me feel a bit more at ease? Ones that I can get to know a little or have a little bit of a laugh with before anything happens?

Check out the chat feature here , escorts dropping in and out all the time and gives you a chance to interact and no pressure ,but best to read the guide to newbies first

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...ps-for-newbies

Check out the reviews of some of the escorts you like ,most of the well established ones are very understanding of new clients , just remember to treat escorts with respect and you should be ok

[IndigoBlue]

Check out the chat feature here , escorts dropping in and out all the time and gives you a chance to interact and no pressure ,but best to read the guide to newbies first

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...ps-for-newbies

Check out the reviews of some of the escorts you like ,most of the well established ones are very understanding of new clients , just remember to treat escorts with respect and you should be ok

When you say respect like how do you mean? I was polite and said thank you, I asked before doing and I shaved and showered before hand. Didn't want Tarzan swinging about down there and popping out to say hello in the middle of it . I treated her kindly but to be honest, a little shyly, which is strange because I'm not normally shy. It's just new to me. Is there anything else I should know about it? Are gifts the norm?

Edit: Grammar

[Hagane00]

When you say respect like how do you mean? I was polite and said thank you, I asked before doing and I shaved and showered before hand. Didn't want Tarzan swinging about down there and popping out to say hello in the middle of it . I treated her kindly but to be honest, a little shyly, which is strange because I'm not normally shy. It's just new to me. Is there anything else I should know about it? Are gifts the norm?

Edit: Grammar

Treating her with respect means:
You are polite - not overly so though as it might get a little frustrating - but from what you said seems ok.
Be clean, make sure you brush your teeth, mouthwash and have a shower before you go to meet the lady.
Dont force the lady to do something she doesnt want to, or continuously ask for something you know she doesnt do or like.
Dont go near mentioning any 'fights' or 'arguments' she may have been a part of on the forums.

Basically, treat her like you would any other normal girl.

Also, dont be afraid to ask questions - youll never know if you never ask