Question for experienced punters and decent escorts???

[Rachel Divine]

I choose wisely
So no recent bad experiences , so nothing to complain about.

My comment was not directed to you.

Used "you" as it was easier.

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[Getyer Roxoff]

Just came back from the worst punt ever. None of the favourites that were stated were available or the location facilities that were stated! It just got me thinking about my experience with escorts so far. I've been visiting escorts for six years, only when single so it's not a huge amount. I'd say I've visited 11 or 12 girls in that time. I can honestly say only 3 have been good experiences! I'm just wondering if you, looking back on it all, think it's been worth it?? Also, if you've ever visited a girl, handed over the cash, then went to get down do it and found out she flat out won't do what's stated on the page, have you asked for you're money back and left?? And any escorts reading this how would you feel if asked for money back?

Fav are not set in stone. It is a guide.

Now, you presume the escort promised him the moon and the stars.

I do not talk about my favs over the phone , in no way I am "selling" services , but perhaps thats just me and my weird mentality about escorting.

I didn't presume anything. Favorites were advertised, a certain standard of accomodation was advertised. This is not the moon and stars. None were delivered.
It's in his opening post.
It seems he was respectful, mannerly and presentable enough to begin the encounter, and to go ahead to some level with it. Then what was advertised wasn't what he paid for. It's fairly simple. It's false advertising. One experience is advertised. A different experience is on offer.

[happygolucky]

My comment was not directed to you.

Used "you" as it was easier.

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Well you quoted me , so I and everybody else assumed you
were replying to me.

[Rachel Divine]

I didn't presume anything. Favorites were advertised, a certain standard of accomodation was advertised. This is not the moon and stars. None were delivered.
It's in his opening post.
It seems he was respectful, mannerly and presentable enough to begin the encounter, and to go ahead to some level with it. Then what was advertised wasn't what he paid for. It's fairly simple. It's false advertising. One experience is advertised. A different experience is on offer.

I don't like newbies who are entitled to ... something.

I do not see the issue here , honestly.

Move on.

[happygolucky]

I don't like newbies who are entitled to ... something.

I do not see the issue here , honestly.

Move on.

Wether we are newbies or experienced punters we are all entitled to
the same level of honesty.
Only difference is the more experienced punter can spot the honest and the not so honest escorts
straight away.
I could pick 40-50 girls in Dublin at the moment
who are less than honest in their profiles.
The experience of visiting these ladies would come nowhere near what they promise
on their profiles
It's just the newbies can't spot them whereas experienced punters can.

[mrdalvin]

I always have very good hygiene but would still like to be able to have a very quick shower, this was advertised but denied. Just grabbed a swig of mouthwash. The service I was talking about was kissing. This was also advertised but denied. Owo was also advertised but seeing as I was denied a shower I didn't bother asking. I don't think I was asking too much. Im not a bad looking guy, ha when i do punt I do it for fun not out of necessity so I do expect a good experience for my money.

[Sexy Sandy 69]

I always have very good hygiene but would still like to be able to have a very quick shower, this was advertised but denied. Just grabbed a swig of mouthwash. The service I was talking about was kissing. This was also advertised but denied. Owo was also advertised but seeing as I was denied a shower I didn't bother asking. I don't think I was asking too much. Im not a bad looking guy, ha when i do punt I do it for fun not out of necessity so I do expect a good experience for my money.

If you feel strongly that you were duped & mislead, then I would suggest that you submit a review, stating what services you asked for, what services were agreed upon & that you were then denied these services. As you seem to have had more bad punts than good, maybe the next time, do a bit more research. If the girl has reviews, pm the reviewers & ask them about their experience.

I certainly would never deny anyone a shower & can't see the reasoning behind this being denied.

Sandy x

[bluefan1]

I'd say I've visited 11 or 12 girls in that time. I can honestly say only 3 have been good experiences!

You seem remarkably unlucky. Or you're making poor choices. Greater use of the forum and review section will help you make better choices. Look for the posters and reviewers you feel are on the same wavelength as you. The escorts who post here also give a very strong indication of their personalities and services, so you can be re-assured of how you'll be received. You can help others too by submitting reviews of your experiences, good and bad.

The other scenario to consider - one less likely to appeal to you - is that you are part of the problem? Are you expecting to have a fun filled time when you arrive? Attitude, cleanliness and personality are key to a good experience when escorting.

I hope you have better luck in future. I've had a fantastic strike rate thanks to the exceptional women who advertise here. And the not-so-good appointments were in retrospect as much my fault as theirs. Mind you my reviews of the few really bad experiences were not published by E-I for 'various' reasons!

[User300415]

What a mistake to think you are entitled to get all the fav listed.

No way I will do something I am not comfortable with in that moment only because I advertise it and the client has the right to get it.

Visiting an escort is about fun and having a great time , is not about getting this and that done , finish in her mouth whatever...

I am certainly not a doll to play with as you wish , I am a person who is looking for a great time. A date takes two , always.

While I take the time to prepare myself , my place to receive you , I expect respect & good manners.

As a poor misfortunate who has spent way too long at this game, I have encountered the whole wide range of experiences.

The escorts that post on this forum probably have no idea how rank bad a service some of your colleagues provide. And this is not a "I want to marry Rachel" post. My meetings with escorts who contribute to the forum have all been enriching experiences. And I suspect that is true for the overwhelming number of posting escorts, even those few I might have clashed swords with from time to time. Perhaps that is a pointer for prospective punters.

As for meeting other escorts, I no longer go with any expectation; although a girl who is breathing would be nice. E-I's attitude to negative reviews has devalued the whole system. Escorts fund E-I, but I wonder where they get their income? The decline in the number of punters isn't exclusively due to the Depression.

I don't always go for action. The company of a sexy young lady can be intoxicating enough for these old bones. But the number of snake-oil merchants peddling their wares without the availability of even a credible warning system has me on the verge of retirement. I'm going to try and get a more honest hobby like Poker. On consideration, the bones are tired, let's make that Bridge or Bingo instead.

So long folks.

[theladyloves]

HI guys

On reading this I thought I could reply to this, being a mature lady Ive seen a few things where clients and girls are concerned.

Now I cannot speak for others, but I always aim for a good standard in giving my clientele time with me, Looking at it from a escorts view, It's difficult at times as it is not easy to respond to everyone that comes through the door. for various reason.. On the other hand, I am offering and your seeking so I do always try to accommodate your needs.

Now this is a two way thing as well, as clients are not always that easy to get along with, or even the escort I know makes it difficult without the right attitude.. the client not without fault or considerate, nice, clean with no humour, and at times just down right rude.

It's down to communication, To accommodate your needs you have to let the girl know what your interests are, dont always rely on the likes or dislikes list as yes some girls/guys don't actually stick to the list. I prefer a more tailored service, my likes is is a guide of what I will provide, as I am not always able to provide certain things, depends on my wardrobe and tools for the job that I may have with me, but I am open to new suggestions and whats the worst I am going to say... no I don't do that..

And you will then make a decision to still come along and see me..or the escort you have contacted at the time..

I for one feel, that location, and accommodation have to be good to get to and of a good standard to invite you gents over. A battle I come a cross is finding nice, safe accommodation at a fair price. I have as yet not found any to come over to in the new year for my pending tour to Ireland.

So gents a little ground work is needed, do you already know the location you intend visiting, and a little more communication with the escort prior to your visit. If you don't ask up front, without reeling off to many demands as that would be a turn off, in fact it will make the escort feel your not genuine, but within reason sort your service out before arriving.

Keeping in mind, alot of the time when you do turn up your just happy to enjoy the company of the escort, If you walk through the door and you feel you not happy, then make your apologies and go of course do that before parting with any money, or you may not expect to get it back, and that is because the escort has booked your time and probably turned another away, so she can keep it for the wasting of time, it will be the escorts decision..as irritating as it can be for you.

Hope this make sense for you. and happy punting, Hope we meet one day xXx

your loving Salina