Are You a Good Liar?

[Curvaceous Kate]

Recently it has come to call that I can't really enjoy my work, as I don't see myself doing this is 20 years time. Well let me tell you something. I'm just a crap liar and I find the secrets and lies very hard and it does not come naturally to me, so yes, I do crave being in a situation where I can be honest about how I make my money and then go and live by my family again. It has nothing to do with enjoying the work, but to do with living a lie and I can't see myself doing that for the next 20 years.

I know some ladies have told their families what they have been doing, or they have found out and it has not been easy for everyone, with some losing all contact with their families. I just don't want to take that risk, which is one of the reasons why I moved over here, as it does take some of the pressure off, although not entirely.

Sooo... most of us are in the same boat with having to tell a few porkies, about where we are and what we are doing. The question is... are you a good liar, or do you also find it hard, or does it add an extra buzz to the already naughty activity? Or did you find it so hard to live a lie that you told people? If you did, was it worth the risk or did it backfire on you?

[BootSlick55]

I am a compulsive liar. And I love myself for it.

[madjack]

i'm a good liar and the secret is alway's remember who you told which lie to. For example in this business if i am going to cork or limerick to visit a lady i always say that i'm going in that direction just in case i meet someone i know. Told the wife one night i was going up near Cork to look at a vintage machine which in fact i was going visiting a lady from E.I. When i came back for the car it was stolen so i always say i am going in the general direction. I don't need to lie to escort girl's as it is a brief encounter. Never hesitate when telling a lie.

[La Toya]

Well, Kate l think each one of us are good liasr yet people think that a liar gains a victory over our/her/his victim yet what I’ve learned is that a lie is an act of self-abdication, because one surrenders one’s reality to the person to whom one lies, making that person one’s master, condemning oneself from then on to faking the sort of reality that person’s view requires to be faked. A man who lies to the world, is the world’s slave from then o..! just as the saying goes: There are no white lies, there is only the blackest of destruction, and a white lie is the blackest of all....!

[Curvaceous Kate]

Well, Kate l think each one of us are good liasr yet people think that a liar gains a victory over our/her/his victim yet what I’ve learned is that a lie is an act of self-abdication, because one surrenders one’s reality to the person to whom one lies, making that person one’s master, condemning oneself from then on to faking the sort of reality that person’s view requires to be faked. A man who lies to the world, is the world’s slave from then o..! just as the saying goes: There are no white lies, there is only the blackest of destruction, and a white lie is the blackest of all....!

That's sooooo deep!!! You're a very deep young lady!

[Marcus69]

No, I suck at it!

Don't know whether that's a good thing or not, but that's me!

[Curvaceous Kate]

No, I suck at it!

Don't know whether that's a good thing or not, but that's me!

Normally I would say it was a good thing. I'd rather surround myself with people I knew I could trust and not have to second guess all the time, but... sometimes you have to fib in order to keep people happy and to save them from upset. My Mum is so proud of me and that makes it worse, as I'm not sure she would be proud if she knew how I was managing so well, but that wouldn't be her fault, as she was brought up to believe what I'm doing is bad, so she would naturally be upset, concerned and worried about my well being.

Ah well, I'm fine with it for now and hopefully will manage my cover story for a few more years, although it was put into question again just a couple of days ago, but I think I was convincing with my reply. The saddest part is that I'm not being asked to be a God mother for my Sisters baby, because I'm away and I can't go to the Christening, because the date clashes with something I'm doing over here. (not work related). I am upset about that, but there is nothing I can do about it.

Life goes on!

[Briomaid]

Normally I would say it was a good thing. I'd rather surround myself with people I knew I could trust and not have to second guess all the time, but... sometimes you have to fib in order to keep people happy and to save them from upset. My Mum is so proud of me and that makes it worse, as I'm not sure she would be proud if she knew how I was managing so well, but that wouldn't be her fault, as she was brought up to believe what I'm doing is bad, so she would naturally be upset, concerned and worried about my well being.

Ah well, I'm fine with it for now and hopefully will manage my cover story for a few more years, although it was put into question again just a couple of days ago, but I think I was convincing with my reply. The saddest part is that I'm not being asked to be a God mother for my Sisters baby, because I'm away and I can't go to the Christening, because the date clashes with something I'm doing over here. (not work related). I am upset about that, but there is nothing I can do about it.

Life goes on!

What mothers don't know won't hurt them

Tell me to mind my own business Kate but last weekend I had loads of reasons to skip a family meet up until I suddenly realised that while it didn't suit me right now, eventually I would regret skipping. So I moved everything around and made it. Sometimes you have to push to do the impossible. Sorry if I'm butting in.

[Its only me]

If you are going to lie keep it simple to remember and tell everyone the same lie.

I have smoked weed, but, I have never inhaled....... in the last 11 hours

[samlad]

When someone tells me that they are a bad liar, I am less likely to believe them. Am I a good liar? Well, people tend not to believe me when I'm telling the truth, so there you have it. As Napoleon once said:

"History is the version of past events that people have decided to agree upon."

When it comes to moderating issues on the forums, and generally in life (with children, politics, etc.), people naturally have two different sides to a story. The 'victim' tends to exaggerate the extremity of the situation whereas the 'instigator' trivialises their antics, so I always guess that things happen right down the middle.

It's easy to lie online and be anyone you want under the guise of anonymity, but in real life, not so easy. You have to have a very good memory to be a good liar, so that's where I would falter, as my memory is awful.