Does your wife/girlfriend know you visit escorts?

**Curvaceous Kate** · 08-12-12, 13:09

Originally Posted by CoolJay

This is fucking insane,anyone women who is happy that there man is sleeping with other women needs to see her GP quickly,i dont care what anyone thinks here,take away your client additude and your escorts additude and you will see that this is fucking insane that anyone would say well sone OP your the man!!

Did any of you girls sit in school and dream about life etc and go you know what when im older i wouldnt care that the man i love cheats on me because i will have no self respect

Catch a grip,who cares what the wife does or not do in the bedroom,there is simply no excuse,if you do it or not thats up to you as person but dont give that shit like she deserves it because she doesnt offer as much,how pig headed can you be.

How would you like your daughter get her heart stamped on,sick mindless people

Are you saying that they shouldn't see Escorts at all or that they should lie? At least if she knows about it she has the choice to walk or accept it and it is her choice, which otherwise she does not have. Some women in later life have no sex drive at all and it might feel like the better consequence to splitting up. Thinking about it I think my Mum would have coped if my Step Dad had been seeing an Escort, as I know the idea of being single again in her 60s was very traumatic for her. As it was he had an affair with a bar maid and she couldn't forgive that. She isn't happy now and funnily enough, neither is he.

Life is never cutndried, it's easy to see things black and white when you still have so much life ahead of you, but I'm afraid it won't be like that forever.

**Morpheus** · 08-12-12, 13:11

Originally Posted by Wicklow37

Just wanted to throw that out there.

I have come clean to the mrs about my activities and she is pretty ok with it. There are certain services not available in the wicklow37 bedroom and she has no problems with me getting them else where.

Was I mad to come clean?

Err.....are you for real Wicklow????

Fair play if you and the missus have such an open relationship.

But I can safely asume that if most other blokes did tell their wives/girlfriends that they see escorts, one of the following would happen:

They would be dead (and it would be a fairly painful death)
They would be castrated (same as being dead!!)
Best case scenario - they'd be homeless on the streets (with no access to their kids!!)

I don't think any man should ever, ever tell his significant other (with the exception of the OP for whom it seems to have worked)

**CoolJay** · 08-12-12, 13:13

Originally Posted by Morpheus

Err.....are you for real Wicklow????

Fair play if you and the missus have such an open relationship.

But I can safely asume that if most other blokes did tell their wives/girlfriends that they see escorts, one of the following would happen:

They would be dead (and it would be a fairly painful death)
They would be castrated (same as being dead!!)
Best case scenario - they'd be homeless on the streets (with no access to their kids!!)

I don't think any man should ever, ever tell his significant other (with the exception of the OP for whom it seems to have worked)

100% agree if your going to do it then do it.... But why run the risk of breaking her heart,you dont know what she will do to you or herself.

Cheating on a girl is selffish but telling her is worse

**CoolJay** · 08-12-12, 13:16

Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

Are you saying that they shouldn't see Escorts at all or that they should lie? At least if she knows about it she has the choice to walk or accept it and it is her choice, which otherwise she does not have. Some women in later life have no sex drive at all and it might feel like the better consequence to splitting up. Thinking about it I think my Mum would have coped if my Step Dad had been seeing an Escort, as I know the idea of being single again in her 60s was very traumatic for her. As it was he had an affair with a bar maid and she couldn't forgive that. She isn't happy now and funnily enough, neither is he.

Life is never cutndried, it's easy to see things black and white when you still have so much life ahead of you, but I'm afraid it won't be like that forever.

Im not going to reply to you

**Curvaceous Kate** · 08-12-12, 13:20

Originally Posted by CoolJay

100% agree if your going to do it then do it.... But why run the risk of breaking her heart,you dont know what she will do to you or herself.

Cheating on a girl is selffish but telling her is worse

I don't agree. I don't want to be with someone who isn't 100% committed and it's possible that I am with them, because I think they love me, but I'm not sure if I love them. Maybe it's not right for us to be together and we are both living a lie?

I think a lot of men never ask their partners for certain things sexually as well and they might be surprised at what they would be happy to do. Communication is key to any relationship. It's just a shame that so many couples wait until it is too late or slip up.

By the way, it's not telling them that breaks their heart, it's doing it.

**CoolJay** · 08-12-12, 13:22

Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

I don't agree. I don't want to be with someone who isn't 100% committed and it's possible that I am with them, because I think they love me, but I'm not sure if I love them. Maybe it's not right for us to be together and we are both living a lie?

I think a lot of men never ask their partners for certain things sexually as well and they might be surprised at what they would be happy to do. Communication is key to any relationship. It's just a shame that so many couples wait until it is too late or slip up.

By the way, it's not telling them that breaks their heart, it's doing it.

Omg we see things so differently, i would say your so wrong its embarrassing

**gambor** · 08-12-12, 13:23

Well said!! Had a relationship break up before because of a lack of communication by both parties. Had we just been open to each other things would have been very different!!

Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

I don't agree. I don't want to be with someone who isn't 100% committed and it's possible that I am with them, because I think they love me, but I'm not sure if I love them. Maybe it's not right for us to be together and we are both living a lie?

I think a lot of men never ask their partners for certain things sexually as well and they might be surprised at what they would be happy to do. Communication is key to any relationship. It's just a shame that so many couples wait until it is too late or slip up.

By the way, it's not telling them that breaks their heart, it's doing it.

**CoolJay** · 08-12-12, 13:24

How thick could you be not to realize to do that

**gambor** · 08-12-12, 13:30

Originally Posted by CoolJay

How thick could you be not to realize to do that

Well aren't u nice and friendly today!! Yeah it was ridiculous looking back at it was a long time ago and we were very naive but shit happens people do stupid things but that's how people learn and better themselves

**CoolJay** · 08-12-12, 13:33

Originally Posted by gambor

Well aren't u nice and friendly today!! Yeah it was ridiculous looking back at it was a long time ago and we were very naive but shit happens people do stupid things but that's how people learn and better themselves

But isnt communcation one of if not thee biggest fundamental's in a relationship,you learn that in school days.

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