Can you be truly in love and .......

[experiencedguy]

can u be in love and still continue to work as an escort?

the answer is there is no right answer

its how u deal with ur own emontion yourself

I was just about to write something like this. No more need be said.

[Bagelbhoy]

Would an escort ever retire for the sake of true love or even to give it a relationship a chance to become true love ?

[Bagelbhoy]

Would an escort ever retire for the sake of true love or even to give it a relationship a chance to become true love ?

That should read
Would an escort ever retire for the sake of true love or even give a relationship a chance to become true love ?

[JAMESCORK]

That should read
Would an escort ever retire for the sake of true love or even give a relationship a chance to become true love ?

Yes.... Most definately

[Clyde]

It can at that Clyde but it can be over ruled by the large head.

Depends how strong the big head is

[ISO HAWNY]

My answer to that is that you can truly be in love with someone and yet the person can be in everyway wrong for you and you could be wrong for them. The relationship could be fundamentally flawed in any and every respect but you can still love someone.

So many people are in relationships that probably shouldnt be but still they love, you cant decide who and how you love, you cant turn it on and off like a tap. People cheat on each other with non-escorts everyday and regret it and they cheat and they dont regret it but they still can love.

At the end of the day marriage and monogamy are human inventions. Lust and desire and all that sort of stuff is natural

Me I prefer the natural world to the that which has been created by us as a race that is fundamentally flawed and I think I had a good point towards the start of this and then it started to go wrong!!!

ha,ha . yes FB you sorta lost me a bit there too.

Love is a myth!!!

with respect I completely disagree with this. when you have found it, you will know it.!

Do you find anything morally wrong with lying to her?

about what ? not mentioning I am seeing escorts or saying I'm going to the gym when I'm not ?

If i was in a relationship Id guess I wouldnt visit an escort anymore, as there wouldnt be much of a need. Having said that I know there are lots of problems in a relationship,and if your not getting sex I see why men do this. But either way, You would have to feel some guilt, do you not?

seriously, no.

the only concern would be to ensure I dont get an sti and pass it on and I will not allow this happen.

If you have no good reason to use escorts then you are simply being unrespectful and selfish too your better half....
I need escorts for sex as i am not getting much at home......but the last year or so i am sick of having meaningless sex....Love is something to cherish with your partner....

I can understand and appreciate your point. I think our sex life may be about to re-ignite itself and if so,I have some serious thinking to do.but the main concern would be so as to not pass on an sti.

Hummmm whats it like to be in love truly in love I thought I was in love but really I wasn't . But I think if you are truly in love and want to spend the rest of your life with that person you don't cheat .

I would disagree. I have no doubt that I want to spend the rest of my life with this person. I dont consider seeing escorts as cheating. I would see an affair in a totally different light.

[gentelmandave]

Who are any of us to say which morals are right .

Why complicate what for me is uncomplicated fun with a beautiful woman .: doc

Exactly Doc, if its uncomplicated and fun for you, or anybody else here or in real life why worry what other people think you only have one life so go Enjoy it.

[black perl]

... continue to see escorts at the same time ?

I am in a relationship and truly love my partner and yet morally I have no difficulty in seeing escorts. this would horrify many people who would argue that I must be fooling myself and I am not recognising some deep fault in the relationship . I believe they are wrong. are others in this situation and how do you feel about this ?

Escorting is a job,nothing to do with my personal live

[funlover12]

course. what do you think swinging is. same principle but with deceit!

[Anna23]

Don't you consider it morally wrong when you tell her your going to the gym and she believes you, trusts you that you do something for your health while in truth you are having sex with someone else which would probably hurt her a lot if she knew?

How important is trust in a relationship for you? Do you know that for most its a fact that where is no trust, there is no love? Trust to me implies believing that the other doesn't lie to you and more importantly, that you don't need to lie to them, to pretend to be someone you are not. Trust means that you can be fully yourself knowing that your partner will accept you as you are.
I'm not sure about the value of any relationship that lacks trust. Whats the point then when you cannot rely upon each other for support in darkest moments?

I can tell you about the thing that would piss of most rationally thinking even more than the fact that you are having sex with someone else and that is if they knew how much money you spend on them, while you could buy them a present instead or a vacation or just give them the money. Why should some other woman have it while your partner is doing the same with you like silly for free?!