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    ... continue to see escorts at the same time ?

    I am in a relationship and truly love my partner and yet morally I have no difficulty in seeing escorts. this would horrify many people who would argue that I must be fooling myself and I am not recognising some deep fault in the relationship . I believe they are wrong. are others in this situation and how do you feel about this ?

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    can u be in love and still continue to work as an escort?

    the answer is there is no right answer

    its how u deal with ur own emontion yourself
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    Quote Originally Posted by ISO HAWNY View Post
    ... continue to see escorts at the same time ?

    I am in a relationship and truly love my partner and yet morally I have no difficulty in seeing escorts. this would horrify many people who would argue that I must be fooling myself and I am not recognising some deep fault in the relationship . I believe they are wrong. are others in this situation and how do you feel about this ?

    My answer to that is that you can truly be in love with someone and yet the person can be in everyway wrong for you and you could be wrong for them. The relationship could be fundamentally flawed in any and every respect but you can still love someone.

    So many people are in relationships that probably shouldnt be but still they love, you cant decide who and how you love, you cant turn it on and off like a tap. People cheat on each other with non-escorts everyday and regret it and they cheat and they dont regret it but they still can love.

    At the end of the day marriage and monogamy are human inventions. Lust and desire and all that sort of stuff is natural

    Me I prefer the natural world to the that which has been created by us as a race that is fundamentally flawed and I think I had a good point towards the start of this and then it started to go wrong!!!
    All my life people have called me an amateurish knob
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    Love?
    Whats this word you speak off?
    Take it slow, and let the good times roll

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    Love is a myth!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mer View Post
    Love is a myth!!!

    If you wanna live in a fantasy world you have to put up with the myths!!
    All my life people have called me an amateurish knob
    One day I hope to become a professional cock!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ISO HAWNY View Post
    ... continue to see escorts at the same time ?

    I am in a relationship and truly love my partner and yet morally I have no difficulty in seeing escorts. this would horrify many people who would argue that I must be fooling myself and I am not recognising some deep fault in the relationship . I believe they are wrong. are others in this situation and how do you feel about this ?
    Do you find anything morally wrong with lying to her?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Funny Bone View Post
    My answer to that is that you can truly be in love with someone and yet the person can be in everyway wrong for you and you could be wrong for them. The relationship could be fundamentally flawed in any and every respect but you can still love someone.

    So many people are in relationships that probably shouldnt be but still they love, you cant decide who and how you love, you cant turn it on and off like a tap. People cheat on each other with non-escorts everyday and regret it and they cheat and they dont regret it but they still can love.

    At the end of the day marriage and monogamy are human inventions. Lust and desire and all that sort of stuff is natural

    Me I prefer the natural world to the that which has been created by us as a race that is fundamentally flawed and I think I had a good point towards the start of this and then it started to go wrong!!!
    Actually, I'm beginning to believe that you can chose who you will love and when... In fact we all do it on an unconscious level but you can train yourself to control it consciously.
    Last edited by Anna23; 15-07-12 at 15:02.

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    Short answer... no. There has to be something wrong somewhere if your in a serious relationship and still punting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ISO HAWNY View Post
    ... continue to see escorts at the same time ?

    I am in a relationship and truly love my partner and yet morally I have no difficulty in seeing escorts. this would horrify many people who would argue that I must be fooling myself and I am not recognising some deep fault in the relationship . I believe they are wrong. are others in this situation and how do you feel about this ?
    If you have no good reason to use escorts then you are simply being unrespectful and selfish too your better half....
    I need escorts for sex as i am not getting much at home......but the last year or so i am sick of having meaningless sex....Love is something to cherish with your partner....
    Last edited by Notatwork; 15-07-12 at 15:11.

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