How many of you are in a relationship?

[DaleChester]

Just curious as to if there are guys here who use escort services while in a relationship themselves. And if so, are you worried it would get back to your partner?

[Paddy739]

Yes I am in a long term relationship.

Seeing an escort is cheating, catching something and bringing it home is a (low) risk, you could be arrested for seeking sexual services and your life destroyed and your name in the paper.

However if you seek lady’s with good reviews, and are discreet and non a general idiot on how you seek an escort you should be ok.

(Also get tested frequently)

https://sh24.ie/ Do a very discrete postal service and results are sent by text.

[WellDressed]

(Also get tested frequently)

https://sh24.ie/ Do a very discrete postal service and results are sent by text.

Good advice, they literally had the results out to me in 24 hours after sending.

They'll deliver to anywhere too as long as you provide an eircode

[WellDressed]

Just curious as to if there are guys here who use escort services while in a relationship themselves. And if so, are you worried it would get back to your partner?

Yes in a relationship.

As Paddy said seeing escorts comes with risks but I love my partner, might sound contradictory but for reasons our sex life isn't the same as what it used to be. Seeing escorts takes away temptation of having a full blown affair. I see someone for an hour, have my needs fulfilled and then it's finished. Do I wish it was different, yes but I also recognise that escorts provide me what I am lacking in an otherwise happy relationship. I still provide for my family and I am still affectionate at home.

As long as you don't get too involved, spend only what you can afford and test regularly it should have no detriment.

[Moocher]

Good advice, they literally had the results out to me in 24 hours after sending.

They'll deliver to anywhere too as long as you provide an eircode

My understanding is that when the envelope arrives at the eircode address, it is not particularly discreet as it is carries the HSE logo . If the eircode is an office, then whoever is opening the post could quite easily and inadvertently open it . Is that correct ?

[WellDressed]

My understanding is that when the envelope arrives at the eircode address, it is not particularly discreet as it is carries the HSE logo . If the eircode is an office, then whoever is opening the post could quite easily and inadvertently open it . Is that correct ?

I have had mine delivered to my workplace, there was zero markings as to what it could be. Just my name and address. It comes in a plain small plastic envelope. I'm sure some people that use the service themselves may work out what it is, and it's none of their business, but to most people it's just a package arriving for you.

If someone is opening your mail addressed to you in your workplace that would raise bigger concerns for me.

I think everyone regardless of relationship status should be testing regularly if they are sexually active with multiple people.