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    Quote Originally Posted by Gudrun996 View Post
    First timer here too, not sure what I'm at tbh pm'd a couple of profiles but have heard nothing back
    I don't think you can send PMs until you have at least 10 posts on this forum. It might seem like they were sent but they just don't go through

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corkguykev View Post
    I don't think you can send PMs until you have at least 10 posts on this forum. It might seem like they were sent but they just don't go through
    I thought you could PM advertisers straight away, but needed the 10 posts to PM other members (and thank)... could be wrong, been a while since I was trying to figure that all out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IAmLIAm View Post
    I thought you could PM advertisers straight away, but needed the 10 posts to PM other members (and thank)... could be wrong, been a while since I was trying to figure that all out.
    Your correct I PM'd a few ladies when I first registered.

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    For a newbee there is no point in texting. Even for established punters it is hit and miss.
    Be calm, business like,polite and have specific time in mind. ( anytime between 4 and 6 for 30 minutes. Or whatever.
    Don’t ask unnecessary questions ( read the profile several times and any reviews). If you do your homework it helps with nerves.

    If you want tell her it’s your first / nervous. She will have worked that out after 10 seconds.
    We have all been there and survived

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    Quote Originally Posted by Devine99 View Post
    I haven't gotten the chance to meet an escort just yet. I was thinking of sending a DM to the phone number if the option is available in their preferences. But I don't know what I should say. Sent this to just one earlier but got no reply. (Busy maybe? Lol) "Hello (Name) How are you? I was wondering if could I book a meet with you whenever it's possible. Thank you" So yeah probably doesn't look good typing this out. How would one send a text to an escort. I want to come across friendly and genuine. Not a time wasting eejit.
    FFS lad
    You are nearly 5 years on here and you still haven't made a call


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    A major difficulty, I have found , in communicating with an escort is that you basically have to have already made up your mind to book them before they will respond and even then often there will be no response. Whilst an enquiry might be a genuine one, unless the enquiry is consistent with agreeing an actual booking, it will mostly be ignored. The contacting methods information on the profile is often wrong and conflicting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blue60 View Post
    A major difficulty, I have found , in communicating with an escort is that you basically have to have already made up your mind to book them before they will respond and even then often there will be no response. Whilst an enquiry might be a genuine one, unless the enquiry is consistent with agreeing an actual booking, it will mostly be ignored. The contacting methods information on the profile is often wrong and conflicting.
    Some push for a booking, but if it's a genuine question an answer is usually given.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blue60 View Post
    A major difficulty, I have found , in communicating with an escort is that you basically have to have already made up your mind to book them before they will respond and even then often there will be no response. Whilst an enquiry might be a genuine one, unless the enquiry is consistent with agreeing an actual booking, it will mostly be ignored. The contacting methods information on the profile is often wrong and conflicting.
    Probably due to time wasters. I'd hazard a guess that they get more calls time wasting rather than actual bookings throughout the day. Lads getting a thrill just messaging them not serious in actually meeting.

    If you have your mind made up that you want to see someone you should text a nice greeting, introduce yourself and choose/request a time and ask would they be available for a meeting. That way they will know that you are serious about a booking and will respond accordingly if they want to meet or/and if they are available. Then if you have a certain request or query you can ask.
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    I have found through experience, you should show flexibility with your chosen visiting time for an initial meeting. Also, read the ad carefully from head to toe, how many ads out there say they don’t accept text messages but yet the reviews and bio say contact on WhatsApp?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Johnom View Post
    Some push for a booking, but if it's a genuine question an answer is usually given.
    What the client might think is a genuine question and what the escort might think, are very often two completely different things.

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