Female orgasm?

[oddball]

Seems an odd thing to insist upon, suspect mostly that they want their ego stroked more than that bit between their legs.
I hold no illusions about my ability in bed so even if she "orgasms" I'll just assume she's faking it for my benefit, I honestly hope they do enjoy being with me but believing I can bring them that level of pleasure is just a leap of faith too far for me, internet dating has taught me that I'm clearly unattractive and in my mind if I was that great I wouldn't be paying.

[thicklanger]

I've never expected an escort to orgasm, and would be really surprised if it happened. If I'm visiting, it's for my own pleasure, I feel no obligation to facilitate her climax. Maybe that sounds selfish but it's an agreed upon, one-sided, transactional encounter, and I'm prefectly fine with that, while still being polite and respectful.

[bananabox999]

Am i delusional in that i think we should both enjoy the encounter?

Granted i understand the logistics might not always allow that? But we both should have a good time right??

Feels selfish to be there just for myself, takes 2 to tango and all that.

[thicklanger]

Am i delusional in that i think we should both enjoy the encounter?

Granted i understand the logistics might not always allow that? But we both should have a good time right??

Feels selfish to be there just for myself, takes 2 to tango and all that.

I would be concerned if they were NOT enjoying the encounter. Expecting them to O is a different thing imho. The two parties are there for different reasons - one is providing a service; the other has to pay to play. It's not a conventional 'tango'. If both parties get off great but it's not to be expected.

[kerrytipp]

It’s very simple for me, I just love eating pussy and ass. If the lady comes it’s a bonus but honestly I could spend 45 mins down there happily eating to my hearts content. I appreciate that some ladies feel the need to fake it but that’s ok. I just love pleasuring a lady before I get my jollies. If I’m honest if I didn’t go down before the main event I’d be done and dusted in 10 mins flat as the majority of the ladies I meet are stunners and I usually pop quick

[thicklanger]

If I’m honest if I didn’t go down before the main event I’d be done and dusted in 10 mins flat as the majority of the ladies I meet are stunners and I usually pop quick

That's nine and half minutes better than me then 😁

[john40]

A big turn on for me is seeing a wonan play with herself. Even more, to see/hear her cum.

However, I don’t think I have the right to expect them to or demand that they do while I'm with them. Yes, it would be nice but it's called respect

We don’t have the right to expect or demand anything.

[thicklanger]

A lot of guys really don't get it..
It's all nothing to take personally.
She's not your girlfriend.
She's not that into you most of the time and she's not in the mood (physically or mentally) most of the time.
A lot of girls will need to use Lidocaine (numbing) for their pussy/nipples in order to entertain multiple clients or for guys who aren't been careful or considerate enough.
Ever noticed your lips/tongue been numb after a session, did you not realise what that was??

You could spending hours eating her out all to no avail. Occasionally you might be dealing with a woman who's in the mood, who's attracted to you and is sufficiently relaxed to get off but this is not common, like I said it's nothing personal.

Here's some context. The porn actress Belle Claire in an interview admitted that during a decade long career, hundreds of guys/gals, perhaps a thousand scenes she came once...

Exactly that.

[Madgar]

If there are times when a professional cant get me to cum... then I can't hold myself to the standard of getting them to cum... but thats just me