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    I always enjoy your posts Dieve. They are witty, clever and get the point across. Anyone who has met you know you always give 100% so I don’t think it’s about favs or your energy and desire. SP’s who like what they do know what to do to make it a positive engagement but you can’t please all the people all the time.

    Let’s be honesty it’s an intimate business and so much depends on “chemistry” mood, expectations It doesn’t take much to “ruin the mood”. Sometimes even seemingly little things like being late/kep waiting on either side can be mood killers.

    I think high expectations and “expecting someone to cum on demand” only increases anxiety and reduces the pleasure on both sides.

    A great, pleasant and positive interaction doesn’t always have to be an earthshattering orgasm where both of you shake, quiver and collapse in each others sweaty arms every time.

    Going with the flow and seeing where it takes you would be my advice to everyone.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dieve View Post
    It's been on my mind lately due to a few occasions when the clients were focusing on my orgasm instead of theirs.

    I was also inspired by a recent thread where clients were sharing their issues when it's hard for them to culminate.

    I wanted to know your opinion on female orgasm within the context of escorts.

    The first guy specifically asked me not to fake it, and wanted to watch me wank. It took me a while to get there, and I assumed we would cum together, but he asked me to do it again. The pressure made it even harder of course, so at one point I told him I don't think I can do it. He really wanted it, and I eventually got over the line, which got him there too. I wasn't happy about it though obviously, I felt drained.

    The second guy only told me he wished I could cum after a long licking session, so I tried to finish myself fast, but I couldn't, and the time was up. I felt like I did a bad job for not fulfilling his request, but he assured me that I didn't.

    The third guy also did a long licking before telling me that he was hoping for results from that, but instead of guilty wanking, this time I tried to be cool and made a joke which didn't land well.

    The fourth guy downright cumshamed me when he thought his licking was a waste of time.
    - I'm not doing it right, am I?
    - What do you mean? ��
    - Well, you haven't cum.
    - Oh, I can't ����
    - There's no such thing, every woman can cum.

    So my question is, what is the right move?

    ■ Just fake it, babe. It's part of the job. This whole world is an escape from reality. Don't overthink it. Don't feel guilty about it.
    ■ Put it in your advertisement that you are cumdisabled to prevent misleading these fine purebred gentlemen who put their heart in pleasuring you!!!
    ■ Ask during booking if they want female orgasm, like a bookable favourite.
    ■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum if you're in the mood.
    ■ Ask in bed after some licking if they want to see you cum regardless of whether you're in the mood.
    ■ Compulsively cum with every client. Take your job seriously, girl. All these awards, and no cum? Ridiculous. Make mama proud. Cum!
    ■ Nothing, they gotta be mature enough to understand that your inability to cum has nothing to do with their technique.

    P.s.: The guy who booked me for 3 hours and ate pussy for 2.5 hours didn't care whether I came or not.
    This is why whenever guys eat my pussy, I assume they like the sensation of doing it, my orgasm is just cherry on top.
    I like the sensation too, and I always make sure I show it. I just think that machines are better for my clit than people. That's all.

    Last edited by Launcelot; 05-05-24 at 19:33.

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