The tease to the point of frustration is the whole point of a good lapdance club or strip club.
It's not a place to go if you are looking for "value for money"
Sometimes you may be offered extra services but it will be at very high rates as the dancers are aware how horny you are after a night or evening there.
They are places to go to enjoy the moment and to appreciate beautiful ladies who move well.
I also think they tend to be places visited by a group rather than the mostly solitary activity of going to see an escort.
Clubs in Ireland don't compare well in quality with those elsewhere, UK, Czech Republic, Canada, etc. perhaps that's due to the popularity of E-I and other sites here. Angels on Leeson St was fairly good during the late Celtic tiger era but still nowhere close to abroad.
For me they are very seperate types of female appreciation. There are many lovely escorts here but few skilled the art of a teasing lapdance.
Escorts such as Danika Lima, Iva, and Suzy are very skilled at both, perhaps some others who I have not met are too.
This might become a useful place for others to post their favorite escort lap dance specialists.